I was raised in an LDS family. I began to question the church a bit in college (as do most folks, I think?). I also met my one and only girlfriend in college. Here we are 15+ years later with two kids.
Clearly I am not active in the church, however I am thankful/grateful for the stability it provided me as a child. I believe in the social/cultural aspects of the church, but do not believe the doctrine. The focus on family is appealing to me, as is the built-in social network. (Let's not even get into the benefits that come with 'having a testimony' such as business and career networking, good, cheap education, etc.) I am currently unsuccessful in searching for some way to provide the same for my children.
I don't know if my story or history could be of any help to your friend. (For example if she is coming out of a marriage, has kids, etc.)
I'd be happy to e-chat with her or answer any specific questions via you if that might be helpful to her.