I've been wearing DD2 (1month) a lot. I have a snugli and 5yds of muslin to wrap with, It's really a lifesaver to have my hands free when she can't handdle being put down. However, I do fnd it awkward; she's basically in my way for a lot of activities, incluing cuddling DD1 (2 1/2 yrs). I'm not comfortable with a back carry for such a little one. I miss holding my toddler and feel terribly guilty when I think she's not getting enough attention. Any suggestions?