If it's any consolation, they often grow into it. I was disappointed when I finally bought a OTSBH when my son was 2 or 3 months old and he hated it! DH would never let me buy another one, until I recently borrowed a MnM pouch and a friend gave me a Rev Jan she didn't like. He's gotten pretty fond of them, and it took me over a month to return the pouch! I'm getting a Kozy now.
My son was the same way, only liked being upright and with arms/legs fairly free. His personality is one where he must know what is going on at all times, so I think that was part of it. Use whatever works, occasionally try new positions, borrow different types of slings or pouches and see if your baby likes those better, and reintroduce old ones every now and then to see if baby has warmed up to them.
Shannon, mama to Jack :
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