I hear great things about Sakura bloom but I've never tried one. I have a maya wrap ring sling and love it but it has a padded shoulder which isn't ideal for me but it's perfect for my husband. Is there a baby store near you where you could try out different slings to see which shoulder is best for you? If there's a local babywearing group, that would be an excellent place to start. I hear wrap conversion ring slings are amazing too. You can always join a babywearing group on Facebook to see who's nearby.