Hmm... it shouldn't be on your neck at all. Are you starting out with it on your shoulder and it is traveling up to your neck? I can't stand to babywear in a coat, it makes me claustrophobic so I won't be any help there, lol. I would say maybe try to do the shoulder flip so it is more snug on your shoulder.
Amy: Certified Professional Midwife and mom to Max (11) and Stella (6).