I have been using a babyhawk to carry my 2 yo on my back. But I am new to MT's, she feels like shes pulling back a bit, and I get red blood mark things on my arms from the BH straps. So logically I need to pull her tighter on the top straps, but then she feels too tight in there and actually starts fussing a bit. Any tips? oh and I've been tying the bottoms straps under my belly and the top ones around crossed under her butt and tied above my belly.
A house full of girls, but for dad and one brother "Be careful how you speak to your children. One day it will become their inner voice." ~ Peggy O' Mara Cloth diapering, babywearing and co-sleeping has been a way of life for almost a decade now