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#1 of 74 Old 07-20-2004, 12:11 AM - Thread Starter
 
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For reasons yet to be known, our sweet baby will be born still. We are trying to initiate labor right now. I have no words right now and have no idea when I will be back around to post again. This is so hard. Thank you all for sharing my pregnancy with me.
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Just popping in to offer you a hug...I am so sorry.

~Brandon Michael (11/23/03), Jocelyn Lily Nữ (2/4/07, adopted 5/28/07 from Vietnam), Amelia Rylie (1/14/09), & Ryland Josef William (9/7/05-9/7/05 @ 41 wks). 
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Oh darling....I am so very very sorry honey.

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I am so very sorry for your family....
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I am so very sorry

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I'm so sorry mama.
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Oh Brandi! I am at a loss for words. I wish I could help to take away your pain.

I'll be hoping for a peaceful and easy labor as you help your baby make the transition.
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Oh my friend....I can't speak and can barely type through the tears....

I am so very sorry.

(((((( love and strength )))))
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I'm so very sorry.

He who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe is as good as dead; his eyes are closed.  ~Albert Einstein
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Oh no...I am so sorry.
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I am so sorry. I lost a son at 32 weeks, and even though it's been almost two years, still think about him every day. Please find the support you need, and consider visiting the birth loss forum here.
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OMG, Brandi, I am so sorry. I'm lighting a candle for you and your family will be in thoughts all day.
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I am so sorry.

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I am sooooooo sorry, Brandi. I pray for the Holy Spirits comfort and God's healing for you and your family.
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I'm so sorry Brandi. Sending you hugs from the One Thread.

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I'm so sorry Brandi. Much love to you and your family.

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I am so very sorry. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
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I am so sorry for your loss. We are here for you. My heart goes out to you.
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Before you were conceived, I wanted you. Before you were born I loved you. Before you were a minute old, I would have died for you. That is the miracle of life. ~Maureen Hawkins~
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I am so very sorry. You will be in my prayers.
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*lurking from TTC board*

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Gentle ((((HUGS)))). You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

, , , mama to Ross , Reagan (8/29/05), Joshua (from Haiti...here NOW due to the earthquake!), and Elijah , born safely 9-8-09.
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I am sooo sorry for your loss hugs to you sweet mama
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I'm so sorry... I hope you feel all the love and support coming to you, and I hope that it holds you up during this time of sorrow. You are loved and we are all here for you, thinking of you and your baby. Peace.

Mamato Ruby Violet joy.gif(6 with autism) and someone 1sttri.gif who should make him/herself known sometime in the next month.

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Another one from the TTC boards....


I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I wish there was something I could say or do to ease the pain.

-=Johanna=-
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I am so sorry for your loss. Wishing you and your family all that you need to heal.
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Words cannot even express how sad I am for you and your family. My heart is breaking for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

When you are ready there is a wonderful group of women on the Pregnancy and Loss Board who can help you get through this. You are not alone.
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I am so so sorry for your loss. Please birth your baby and love him/her fiercely! Please come to the birth loss forum for more support from those of us who have been there.
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brandi--
i am so sorry for your loss....please know that we are all praying for you and you family. our love to you

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Childofthemoon. I am so very sorry for your loss - please take care of yourself and know that the women here are here for you.
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There are no words to express my sadness for your loss. Take great care momma!
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