Let's see. I am really keeping this pregnancy under wraps until 12w for the most part, but it is very difficult, as I am already huge :LOL Lots of bloat. I figured w/the 12 glasses of water I drank yesterday helped somewhat.
So I have told a couple of good friends. But that is it. We are not telling our parents or siblings until we have to. Basically until we see them again (they live in NJ). We are planning a trip in July, so I'm sure they will find out then. :LOL
I really have no desire to tell them. My MIL has been asking my hubby every phone conversation
, "you guys aren't trying to get pregnant, are you". I'm sure she will react negatively, so she will be one of the last to know.
My sister might also be pregnant (she would be due on Dec 15th, and I haven't told her either. She has hypothyroidism and has a hx of recurrent early m/c's. Incidentally, she is not telling anyone either :LOL
And I am definately not telling any family members my due date. I had people calling before
our son was even due, "did you have the baby yet?" I had to change the msg on the machine, "If you are calling to find out if we had the baby yet, and we haven't called you, that means we haven't had the baby yet. If we told you we would call you, we will." I got lots of sympathy from the bank, the oil company and countless others :LOL It drastically cut down on the amount of those calls.
So I'm thinking I'm just going to say that the baby is due new years, as that should even eliminate the calls that come before the due date. If I said btw Thanksgiving and New Years, our calls would start by mid November
: I also think that they will be distracted by the holidays too, which works in my favor :LOL