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#1 of 194 Old 06-03-2012, 01:53 PM - Thread Starter
 
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I promise to try to do better about keeping up this month! redface.gif

 

5 weeks til the Iowa Games Triathlon, thinking I'm going to do a mud run next weekend, and maybe a 5K the weekend after that. biglaugh.gifMy husband has declared me to be an addicted lunatic.

 

Hope those who need healing find it soon. Hope those with plans have them proceed flawlessly. Hope those who need hugs/prayers/positive thoughts know that they are in thoughts (even if I'm not posting a lot).
 


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 "Now bid me run, and I will strive with things impossible." (William Shakespeare -- Julius Caesar)

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24 miles on the bike, with an iced coffee and riding partner's tears half way through (it's been 4 years since her husband drowned), with lots of feelings of guilt and inadequecy. Sigh. Seriously, her kids are doing great, due in large part because of her fantastic parenting and focusing on the important stuff, and not sweating the rest. I'm just so sad that she feels the judgment of other parents and has internalized it.

Her daughter was on my soccer team this year. Her kid was the only one on time with her stuff Every Single Time, and she came without mom escorting her. The girl road her own bike, leaving home with her stuff on time without a mom doing it for her. Her daughters are going to be more able adults because they've been taught responsibilty and to take care of themselves when reasonable.

Evidently she's getting judgement for letting her kids walk to school alone (around the block, no streets to be crossed, in a SAFE neighborhood) and she had her daughter *gasp* do her own project on the Amish without help from mom. Yes, she got told off by multiple moms for not doing enough because she didn't do her daughter's project for her.

Sometimes I wonder why I live in this community.

Running 5 tonight with whatever physical and emotional energy I might have left.
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Geo ugh - give her our thumbs up that she's doing fantastic!

 

Warrior Dash, done! It. Was. AWESOME!  I had so much fun.  I just wish I'd followed my heart and went out as fast as I wanted... Once I cut loose and took off it was a blast. The obstacles were hard enough to be a challenge, but not so hard as to be impossible.  Lots and lots of fun. And Rock House? Stunning!

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Geo - wow to those judgy parents. eyesroll.gif But I am so glad she has you as a friend so that the perspectives can realign. And yep, she gets a big thumbs up from me - sounds like her kids are doing right by themselves, and her, and vise versa.

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Geo ~ Yikes!  Your town sounds way too much like mine.  The judgement about letting kids walk or bike to school.  The parental "help" with projects.  Yup, all here too.  Your riding partner sounds like a wonderful person though.

 

Things gradually are returning to normal and I think I've found a fix for my workouts. The school has a 1/3 mile track with a playground right in the middle of it!  We all ride over (1 mile), I run/walk around the track for 30 minutes while the kids play, and then we all ride home.  I want to work that in about 3x a week, probably right after we get home from swimteam practice before it gets too hot.


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Geo--We do fish oil, though maybe we should do it at a higher level than we are currently. I will ask about bone density. What you're saying mirrors my own concerns. I'm wondering about magnesium levels too. This is a kid who has growing pains every time she has a growth spurt. Hmmm. Glad your son's bones took the fall without an issue! I suspect your son's issue is more common than not, yk? And also, goodvibes.gif for your friend. That's so hard. And kudos on your bike ride.

tjsmama--sounds like a great party. Hope work is nice and calm tonight.

JayGee--I would with a 10 and 8yo. Can't really wrap my head around 3 kids, so the 6yo is your call. :P

bec--nicely done on the budget!

Plady--what an interesting dream. I hope it's a very good sign of something.

DM--that sounds like a very busy schedule. I'm always tempted to do that come summer, when there's so much good stuff going on. Have fun!

BBM--congrats!

NRR: Happy to report that R made it through the three "danger zone" days without swelling or any problems from the cast. And she did get to play in the hot springs too. The old town hot springs are right across from our hotel, and there's a pipe that runs under the road and then dumps into the Yampa River (right behind our motel--I'm listening to it rush by as I type this!). This morning, they discovered that there were some warm pools before all that water joined the river and played in those. This afternoon we went back down and I sat in the river for a little bit (close enough to an ice bath) and then we went to the hot springs across the street. We put her arm in a newspaper sleeve with a rubber band on top, and she could dangle her legs in the hot springs pool, sit on the steps of the cold pool, and best of all, do the water slides at the little kid splash and wading pool. I held her hand when she went down so she wouldn't lose her balance, but they were small enough she could be in the water and not worry too much about getting her cast wet. I think she spent a good half hour just going down the octopus slide and one other slide there. Meanwhile, J swam with DH in the hot pools. That child has no fear. It's terrifying, especially when she wants out of the pool and you think she's going to stand on the edge for a minute and she just takes off for another part of the pool. faint.gif Usually I'd jump out after her, but suffice it to say that I was moving like an 82yo this afternoon.

I see late summer/fall swim lessons on the horizon for that one. R was supposed to do lessons this summer (we thought we'd go the private lesson route), but that's on hold for a bit.

RR: Ouch. And ow. And ouch. This hurt way more than my first marathon. It's probably something to do with the fact that I ran it considerably faster and that there was nearly 1000 feet of elevation gain, and 2000 feet of elevation loss. I'll do a full race report later and just stats for now: Chip time; 4:12:03 (official 4:12:13). Placed 9/23 in the F35-39 division, 39/127 women, and 107/276 overall. Winning time in our division was 3:38:41; the person who won the marathon finished in 2:50, which tells me this is a rough course. The downhill was awesome but mostly at the beginning. I hit the halfway point in 1:55:58, but the hills on the second half of the course were killing me. I managed to hold a sub-10 pace until mile 18, but it was ugly after that (and for that matter, I'm surprised I held it that long because there was a 2-mile uphill stretch from miles 14-16 and 16-18 hurt). Anyhow, more later. J is still thrashing and trying to roll herself out of the motel bed.

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Real, that is pretty darn amazing. Wow. And yes, on the tough course, with elites coming in at 2:50. Whoa. Rest well. And I am so sorry about the new break. That just sucks. But again, here is a mom who cares enough to consider it might be more than just simple bad luck, and you're looking for a solution. I hope it's something relatively simply and not hard to deal with.

 

Geo, your friend sounds like a pretty amazing woman who's doing her damnedest. I felt similar pangs of judgment when ds had his science fair in Dubai. Yes, I did police him, but my not doing it for him resulted in the work taking 2-3 times as long, and the end result looking very...undesigned. So what? He really, really understood the circuit concepts by the end of the thing, so it was IMO a success. And as for letting the kids walk, I applaud her and hope more of us can bring some sanity back to our kids and communities. And I am sure she is also lonely and it's just very hard some days.

 

I got out for 4 miles early this AM, but all walking. I just went out to enjoy myself and be alone a while. It was nice. Spent the day at my parents', for my nephew's HS graduation. Had a nice time and managed to not eat all the crap that was available, so that was good. Tomorrow, hope to get up and go out for a short run before taking the kids up to a small amusement park with Gma and cousins. Then, I don't know if y'all have heard winky.gif but WI has a recall, so I am going back to the folks' to vote Tuesday (my man needs my vote). Little brother needs a little help with his kids (almost 2yo and a baby, and both have already warmed right up to me!) later this week, so I'm in demand and feeling useful.

 

House has been great. We love the kitty and it's homey and nice. I am so fortunate.

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Hi mamas, happy June.

 

Real, sounds like you rocked your race, elevation and hills be darned. So impressed! bow.gif

 

BBM, Warrior Dingo Goofy Mama! Wow! 

 

Had a nice day yesterday. Started off with a 12.5 miler in the early morning, then did the charity walk/run with the kids. My oldest dd walked the 5K, and I ran/walked the one miler with the little ones and then we walked back along the 5K course to meet up with dd1. Went to the park later also. I feel asleep by 9 I think. redface.gif

 

Dd1 has requested a new style of bra that 'hides her headlights.' She's 11 1/2 and has been wearing sports bras with an undershirt but still feels rather exposed. Are there lined bras for little girls? I wouldn't even know how to size this, it's not like she has a 'real' cup size yet. She detests being dragged around shopping trying on stuff in stores (and gets very embarrassed) so I am going to have to bring things home and have her try here. Ideas?


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Groan. DD made the club soccer team. There goes my free time and low miles on the car.

C did at least finally take up my offer to swap kids for a bit each week this summer. She's a school OT who specializes in handwriting, and she has a lot of experience with oral sensory issues and eating. I will tutor her kid math, she'll tutor DD handwriting/eating.

Nice run last night with the last of my energy.

DS moved up to the 1/4 size violin yesterday. He sounds so much better. 1/8 should really be outlawed.
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Dmitrizmom - Ogden Fun Days BeHere 5K - June 16, 2012

Mel38 - Charleston Sprint Tri Series #2 - June 17, 2012

tjsmama - Loveland Lake to Lake Triathlon - June 23, 2012

realrellim - Run for Independence 5M - June 30, 2012

realrellim - Middle Park Half Marathon - July 7, 2012

Dmitrizmom - Iowa Games Triathlon - July 8, 2012

bec -  Racine Half Ironman - July 15, 2012

tjsmama - Courage Classic Bike Tour - July 21-23, 2012

Mel38 - Charleston Sprint Tri Series #4 - July 29, 2012

tjsmama - Mudathlon, August 11, 2012

Nickarolaberry - Providence (RI) Rock n Roll Half - August 19, 2012

tjsmama -USAT Age Group Nationals, August 18, 2012

realrellim - Summit Assault (5 mi), September, 2012

tjsmama -Rock n Roll Denver 1/2 Marathon, September 22, 2012

doctorjen - Twin Cities Marathon - October 7, 2012

mel38 - Marine Corps Marathon - October 28, 2012

tjsmama - New York City Marathon - November 4, 2012

 

 

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realrellim - Yeti Chase 10K - January 28, 2012 - 53:24 (PR!)

realrellim - Ralston Creek Half Marathon - February 12, 2012 - 2:00:43

mommajb - 10k - March 17, 2012 - 59:??

doctorjen - Diva Dash 5k - March 25, 2012 - 24:55

Mel38 - Cooper River Bridge Run 10k - March 31, 2012 - 1:03:29 (PR)

realrellim - Redline 13.1 Westminster - April 7, 2012 - 1:57:56

bec - Reach out and Run 5k - April 21, 2012 - 42-ish (with 6yo DD!)

doctorjen - Rock the Parkway half marathon - April 14, 2012 - 1:56:49 (PR!)

Mel38 - TryCharleston Sprint triathlon - April 21, 2012 - 1:30:38

tjsmama - Cherry Creek Sneak 10 Miler - April 29, 2012 - 1:41:39

Mel38 - Hell Hole Swamp Gator Run 10k - May 5, 2012 - 1:02:45 (PR!)

bec - Indy Mini Half Marathon - May 5, 2012 - 2:47:22

realrellim - Miles for Moms 5k - May 5, 2012 - 25:12

Mel38 - Charleston Sprint Tri Series #1 - May 20, 2012 - 1:29:35

Nickarolaberry - Rubin Run Half Marathon - May 12, 2012 - 2:06:11

MelW - Gutbuster 12.5km - May 27, 2012 - 1:45:15

tjsmama - Boulder Bolder 10k - May 27, 2012 - 1:01:30

realrellim - Boulder Bolder 10k - May 27, 2012 - 1:01:29

realrellim - Steamboat Marathon - June 3, 2012 - 4:12:13

Dmitrizmom - MudRun - June 9, 2012 - 50:23.3

Mel38 - A.L.S. Hope 5k - June 9, 2012 - 26:41 (PR!)

 

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1/8 should really be outlawed.
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Yeah, a lot of the smaller sizes lack good tone quality. We've gotten ours from Shar Music through their national rental program and they're decent. Not great, but better than a lot of what I've heard.

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http://rwdaily.runnersworld.com/2012/06/motivational-poster-23.html?cm_mmc=Twitter-_-RunnersWorld-_-Content-Blog-_-RWDailyMotivationalPoster

In my case, it would be more like 30 seconds/mile faster. lol.gif (Already thinking that a flatter course might do it for me. Denver R&R 2013 maybe? I'd think Phoenix, except that I don't want to support Arizona with my $$ right now.)

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Dd1 has requested a new style of bra that 'hides her headlights.' She's 11 1/2 and has been wearing sports bras with an undershirt but still feels rather exposed. Are there lined bras for little girls? I wouldn't even know how to size this, it's not like she has a 'real' cup size yet. She detests being dragged around shopping trying on stuff in stores (and gets very embarrassed) so I am going to have to bring things home and have her try here. Ideas?

I think I have seen what look like lined demi-cup style bras for little girls in the Target or Kohls ads.

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Real - Now those are the problems to have, right?  Great race! 

 

Geo - I'm so mad for your friend!  What a bunch of petty b!tches to pressure her about any parenting choices!  It sounds to me like she's doing an amazing job.

 biglaugh.gifon the violin.  That reminds me that I've been meaning to investigate lessons for Ali G, now I'll also hope she doesn't have to start at the 1/8!

 

Nic - I was shopping for bras for dd a while back and was pretty startled by all the padded bras they were selling.  Until just now I thought it was some crass attempt to sexy up young girls, but I guess when thinking about how perky some of those stages of development can be they may make sense after all.  I don't think you'll have any trouble finding some if you're willing to consider them.

 

Jo - So glad the house is working out!  So, you've come to terms with cats' pantslessness? mischievous.gif  Enjoy being an Aunty!

 

BBM - That sounds like a great time!  I made the coconut cake for my b'day from the cookbook you sent (which I'm really enjoying, I can very much relate to much of her perspective) and it was yummy!  Thank you!
 

Dmzmom - Addicted lunatic!  Like that's a bad thing!  smile.gif

 

RR: Yeah um no.

 

NRR: Had a nice (if not overwhlemingly festive) birthday.  Dd1 offered to babysit so dh and I could go see Men in Black 3 which I really did want to see but had resigned myself to waiting for it on Netflix since I didn't think dh would be at all interested and the kids seem a little too young.  But he actually really enjoyed it, as did I, sometimes you just need a big goofy summer movie fix right?  Then dh made a big dinner including my fave, bacon wrapped cheese stuffed jalapeños.  Mmmm.  All in all it was nice day.


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Plady ~ glad you had a nice birthday smile.gif

 

Nic ~ I think I've seen some bras with padding at Target.  Might those work?

 

Geo ~ the kid swap sounds like a good use of your respective skill sets.

 

Jooj ~ glad you are doing well back here in the states

 

Real ~ great race!  I am seriously in awe of anyone who can run a marathon, never mind one as fast as you did.  Nice work.

 

RR ~ nada, yet again....

 

NRR ~ woke up kids at 6:30 for the first day of swim team practice.  Both DS and DD1 did great!  DD1 is a natural swimmer.  She's built for swimming and just glides effortlessly through the water.  She was seriously smoking fast in the pool.  DS got moved up a lane to swim with some faster kids and the head coach pulled him aside for some 1 on 1 coaching with his freestyle.  Both were tired, but happy when it was done.  BUT, DD2 was miserable!  Two hours of sitting on the pool deck had her reduced to tears of misery, in spite of a bag with craft supplies, books, and snacks.  All she kept saying was, "I want to swim too!" but she can't do a full lap of freestyle yet, so she doesn't meet the requirements.  It's going to be a LONG seven weeks of swim practice.

 

And, I'm a little perturbed about some stuff that has been going on with one of my closest friends.  Since last summer, we've pretty much talked daily, gotten together frequently with our kids, walked 2-3x a week, met for Pilates class a couple of times a week, etc.  I consider her to be my closest friend here in IL.  Around the end of April, she stopped calling me.  Stopped chatting with me at school pick up.  Left right after Pilates class instead of walking with me like we had done for months beforehand.  Her whole manner when we did talk was rather stand-offish and aloof.  Now the only thing I can think of is that my DD1 and her DD are best friends and were taking semi-private swim lessons together.  I was pleased with the lessons, but she wasn't and complained a lot about the instructor.  I actually liked the instructor and my DD did really well, so I said so.  But honestly, it's really hurtful to be blown off by someone I consider a friend.  I know I should approach her and say, hey, what's going on here?  Did I do something to offend you?  But that's hard to do.  And I've been ditched by WAY too many good friends in my life (literally, a dozen if not more), that I almost don't want to know.  Still, I'm sad.  And a little lonely.  And it was uncomfortable at swim practice this morning when she barely said a word and then chatted with a bunch of other people.  Ugh.


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Hi. wave.gif It feels like it has been so long since I've posted here. We had a local move and while I was never w/o interent it wasn't always readily available and I got out of the habit of checking in reguarly. We gave up living at the beach for more living space and privacy. None of my children love the beach so I am the only one that misses it. They don't like the sun, sand, wind, or waves so that pretty much covers it. eyesroll.gif We now have so much space it feels gluttonous but I will say we fill it with bodies and books but are able to keep it clean. It may be the right level but I wish we could live with less. They do love and use the back yard and I can hang out my laundry so... whatever. Life moves on.
More updates: we are 90% sure we are homeschooling the three younger ones in the fall. Having BTDT I am approaching it with excitement tempered by realism and concern that it really is the best decision. Dd2 is the only one I am truly waffling on. Well, her and the thought that I like quiet and order. orngtongue.gif It is AP grading time again so DH is leaving shortly, The older two started summer school today, the little girls will be out of school next week, and I have not been running at all and feel terrible about it. Perhaps soon I will feel bad enough to do something about it.

Plady, I hope it was a great birthday. I love my sticker. birthday.gif
nic, another vote for target but I think if she wants this she needs to face up to shopping and go along. Seriously, there are too many options and she needs to try them on.
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geo, not the same but I love our keyboard as it never needs tuning like our old piano did.
jo, enjoy home.
jayygee, I hope it is something you can work out, especially if you will be seeing a lot of each other. greensad.gif

sparkle, did you get my pm? I included my cell number. I think Torrey Pines or the tide pools at Cabrillo could be fun if schedules and tides agree. Or we could hang out here, I think we live on the same side of town as the climbing center. Let me know.

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Thanks mamas. I did find one at Target that seems to work. She's wearing it now for a while to make sure it's comfortable for more than 5 minutes. 

 

A (former) nursling funny: Ds, this morning as he's getting dressed and I'm holding him: <puts his hands on my chest for his regularly scheduled feelup eyesroll.gif> "Mommy, I miss squishing your boobies whenever I want. I don't need the milk anymore but I like the way they squish."

 

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JayGee - I'm sorry your friend isn't being more mature.  I say take a deep breath and ask.  It can't make things worse than they are.  I feel your pain though. I've begun questioning seriously my desirabilty as a friend.  I have basically no friends, lots of acquaintances.  But I keep telling myself, which would I rather be...popular but not true to my values and beliefs, or true to my values and beliefs and lonely.  I truly believe in standing up for myself and my children and if that's too hard for someone, well I guess that's just the way it is.  I don't believe in being a jerk about it and have never been rude or inappropriate, but I will as compassionately as possible state my view.  That part doesn't fit your situation and is more of my own baggage.  But I guess what I'm saying is, if this is someone you genuinely cared for and you feel hurt by the distance, then you owe it to yourself and the friendship to ask.  If she does a dance and doesn't answer, you still have your answer.  Hugs mama.

 

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Hi from a newbie...I just did a search for "jogging" in the forum and found this thread.

Quick bit about me...from the US but live in Austria. Just gave birth to my first last June. I ran regularly before I was pregnant and then was ordered to stop at about 2 months (placenta problems). I tried to pick it up again 2 months after the c-section (breech) but gave up after the next surgery (mastitis abscess). 2 weeks ago I saw an advert for an upcoming 5k and the running bug bit me hard. I went out the next day with low expectations but was much faster and felt much stronger than I ever imagined I could after so much time off. Hoping to get out 2 times before work during the week and at least once on weekends now.

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Welcome Danube! Wow, you've been through the ringer in the last couple of years. Take it slow and have a blast with your race!

RR: my legs staged a protest last night after Sundatpy's bike+run. We walked the route instead. I extracted a promise from my legs to run tonight.

It looks like DD is the only 5th grader on her U10 team. At least she's excited about the one rising 4th grader she knows. Her best friend still hasn't worked up the guts to tell her friends she's tranfering next year. DD will be crushed. At some point,
I think I'll just have to tell her.

Anyone who's dealt with bullying on either end might enjoy reading Wonder by
Palacio together. It's very well written, and includes every single aspect of bullying that DD experienced this year as a result of being different.

The Venus transit looks like it will be clouded out. OH sucks for astro buffs.


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Welcome, Danube!

 

Ok, stupid question...what does 'rising 4th grader' mean? Does that mean the child WILL be in 4th grade next year, or just finished 4th grade? You'd think as an educator I would know this but I can't get my brain around it.

 

Having full scale anxiety attacks and they are keeping me up at night. Sigh. One step forward, one step sideways, one step back. Some dance I'm doing.

 

Great 7 miles this morning -- 1.5 mile warmup to meet my running group ladies (almost missed them! ran shouting and waving down the street lol.gif), 4 miles with them at a conversational pace, 1 mile tempo after we split off, and .5 cooldown. It's a lovely cool morning. 

 

Have to go have my annual today. Bleh. On the up side, I'm going to a CNM even though I am well past needing a midwife. I figure for well-woman care, I'd rather start there and if I need something more medical she'll let me know and I'll do that. 

 

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 "Now bid me run, and I will strive with things impossible." (William Shakespeare -- Julius Caesar)

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Rising = grade in the fall.

3 more days of school. I have a lot of grading to do, but a paper just got kicked back to me the third time for stupid stuff, as if the journal doesn't have a copy editor. I'm working hard to stay polite with the editor. I do wonder if he's got anything better to do. So,I'll spend my day doing copy editing to do the work the most journals have software for. I guess I don't need to publish there anymore. Plenty of fish in the sea, and some cope with copy editors and scientific editors that focus on the science. Grrrrrr.
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Good morning everyone!

 

Thanks for the new thread Dmitrizmom. Wow, you have a ton of stuff on schedule - sounds great! Let me know if you want the other stuff added to the race list.

 

Welcome danube! And your plan of 3x per week sounds great.

 

Nick, Ha! Your DS's comment is so funny. Write that down for future embarrassment opportunities.

 

 

JG: I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. I hate that kind of thing. Even if you did ask her (which I probably would, the curiosity would just eat me up), there's a chance that she might be so averse to any kind of confrontation that she would not be honest with you. It's too bad to lose her friendship, but maybe she is just not able to handle things like differences of opinion. Could she be carrying a chip on her shoulder since you didn't agree with her on the swim coach? That's pretty thin skin...

 

Also, I like your plan to get your workout in at the track with all the kids. thumb.gif

 

BBM, Warrior Dash sounds like lots of fun!

 

Geo, I agree with you completely about the school project issue, and just the whole concept of letting kids have responsibility for things in their life. What an excellent mom she sounds like! Kudos to her, and just pinktongue.gif to all the mean-spirited people out there criticizing her.

 

And that book sounds incredible. I just teared up reading the reviews on Amazon. Perfect for my DD.

 

RR: Great weekend! 28 mile bike ride over all of our area bridges (lots of "hills") and nice group of people. Then Sunday, my 11 miler, which turned into a 12.7 miler, was also excellent.
 

Since then, though, nothing. Monday was a total wash-out of hours at the computer followed by a heated argument with my 16 yo DD. It just totally depresses me to hear the kids bicker at each other as they are wont to do in the first days of their summer break. I basically blamed her for setting a poor example. So, I feel like an ass. Talk about poor examples greensad.gif


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Left ankle and right hip were complaining loudly during the run this morning. Now as I sit at my desk it's settled in my left knee and I have my feet propped up on 2 diaper packages I've been meaning to take home. Guess that means more stretching. Otherwise, beautiful moring run along the (you guessed it) Danube.

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Danube - that sounds like a lovely place to run. I hope your hip and knee feel better. Sounds like some kind of imbalance (I have the same issue myself, caused by SI joint dysfunction).

Geo - thank you for the book recommendation. I will pick it up at the library if it is available. As for your DD playing U10, when is her birthday? My friend's son has a July birthday and always plays a year down from his grade level peers. My DS will be playing U11 this year, but he is turning 11 (eek!) in October.

Nic - hope your annual went well

RR - biked with the kids over to the school, did C25K week 1 day 2 on the track, biked home. Yay me!

NRR - well, my friend was normal yesterday, and even offered to bring my kids to her house after swim team today so I can go to Pillates. She is under a lot of stress because her DH is in Afghanistan for a year, so maybe her aloofness is more related to that. Whatever.... After Day 2 of swim team practice and soccer camp, my kids collapsed into bed an hour earlier than usual. I crashed at 8:30 too, but woke up at 4:00 eyesroll.gif. Oh well, at least I am getting a litttle quiet time ThI s morning.

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DD has an August birthday, one of 3 in her grade (out of 120) born in the last two months before the kindergarten start cutoff. Probability would give you that there should be 20 of them. So she turns 10 in two more months.

Venus got clouded out last night, and RP canceled because she the football coach's lawyer for his benefits and the football coach wanted something redone. Dude, let your lawyer keep her priorities straight.

And gee, wouldn't you like to have your own lawyer to negotiate your health benefits and retirement plan.

2 more days school. I had the kids write thank you notes. DD misspelled the name of her spelling/reading IS. lol.gif
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