My partner does the same thing, drives me crazy. Really. I'm not pg now, but am trying to lose the extra 40 pounds I gained having his baby and he doesn't help.
Personally, I think they are self-centered. There. I said it.
because I'm the stay home mom it's his paycheck
It's only his paycheck if he is paying you for childcare and also for all the cleaning/cooking/laundry that you do and also for growing his baby!!!
He's not paying you for childcare?
He's not paying for the cooking/cleaning/laundry you do as a SAHM?
He's not paying you for growing his baby?
Then it's a paycheck that belongs to BOTH of you and it should go towards healthy food first, junk food second! It's not HIS money. It's money that belongs to both of you!!
Why don't you begin to go along on the shopping trips? INSIST that you want to come too, and pick out the healthy food that you and your growing child(ren) deserve!
Good luck and best wishes!
Any possibility you could learn how to drive (assuming that's the reason you don't drive)? I learned later in life, way after high school, myself.
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