I REALLY wanted to relactate, but it is like ds is mad at me for denying him for so long, that now he is denying me and won't suck on the breast. That's what I feel like anyway.
Anyway, I bought a PIS and everything, and I STILL can't get anything to come out when I pump! Why doesn't pumping work for me? I only get drops when I pump, but when I hand express I can get much more out. One breast even sprays when I hand express.
I'm just frustrated and wonder if this will ever even be worth it or am I wasting my time. I know if I don't get a good supply back he'll never want to latch on, since he is mostly only in it for the food. He was never much of a comfort nurser, all business.
Oh and I tried one of those devises that you tape the tube to your breast and he would still have nothing to do with it.
I don't want to get depressed, I want to enjoy my baby, but I really wanted to nurse longer too. I feel cheated.
Thanks for listening and for any comments!
There are also people who just manually express, even who work full time. Maybe you could read up on that? It is the only way i have ever expressed milk.
Will he nurse when he is half/mostly asleep?
i don't know what else to say.
I hope you figure it out or find a way to feel better about it. It sounds like you are doing a great job.
Wombat, that kinda makes sense that you would have to get used to a different kind of suck. I'll try to hang in there longer. Even if ds won't latch again, I can at least try to give him breast milk. I've had my PIS for over a week.
Has anyone else seen this to be the case?
If you need to build your supply you might want to take fenugreek and blessed thistle, 3-4 capsules each 3 times a day. There are other herbs like nettles and alfalfa that are also good, especially if you can't find blessed thistle. Domperidone is also an option; there's been a couple threads on this recently.
Have you looked at any of the sites on adoptive breastfeeding/relactation? www.fourfriends.com is a good place to start. Also check out the bottom of the page at http://www.kellymom.com/bf/start/index.html for some info and links.
There are some other moms who are trying to relactate who have posted recently on these boards, you might want to do a search.
Best of luck to you! Let us know how it's going.
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