She has a deep cough, a stuffy runny nose, sore gums due to teething and a 105.8 fever. She is throwing up or spitting up when she drinks. I can get her to take water few sips at a time. But she will NOT nurse. won't even take BM from a cup.
She pulls at my shirt like she wants to nurse, then when she latches on she latches right back off and gags. I am so heartbroken that she needs my milk now more than ever and she won't nurse. Its been almost 5 hours since she has nursed. SHE HAS NEVER gone this long without nursing even as a well baby.
I am so afraid that this will turn into her never coming back to the breast. I am NOT ready to wean. She will be 1 on Tuesday.
HELPPPP, do I just wait it out and keep offering until she comes back or what! i am worreid about supply too.
I haven't had this problem directly but I remember reading some moms would use a dropper to give their babies breastmilk.
I would pump to keep your supply up and relieve engorgement and to give yourself a supply of expressed breastmilk to try giving her in the dropper, cup, bottle, whatever.
Have you tried taking her in the bathroom and turning on the hot shower full bore so you can sit in a steamy room? What about tylenol or motrin for the pain, maybe if she feels a little less sore she'll nurse?
I hope she feels better and nurses soon!
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If you're worried about supply, you could express or pump. Most likely when she feels better, she'll nurse alot & your supply will increase then.
Hope she feels better soon. Take care
I pumped 2-3 times a day, and fed him milk with a dropper. It was the only way he would take it for about 3 days. Finally, after the fever had gone and he was just stuffy, he would take it from a bottle (I had to let him play with the bottle first, I couldn't just give it to him). He finally cleared up, but still wouldn't nurse. By now he hadn't nursed for 6 days and I was a basket case! Near tears all the time. He'd do the sign for milk, but refused the breast, and I'd cry.
So, if you get to that point, here is what I found out from here and a local LLL leader: have lots of skin to skin contact (ie: you and babe in bed, babe in diaper, you naked or at least topless). Don't freak out when they refuse. Try to offer it when they are sleepy/asleep, so it is a habit or instinct and they don't have to think about it. That finally worked for me, when he stirred in the middle of the night I offered him the breast and he latched on! He did that all night. The next morning when he woke up, he hesitated and kinda smiled at me, then latched on. Then I couldn't get him off for like 2 days!
Anyway, long, sorry, but to you, sick babys are so sad!
I just want her back
Is she on antibiotics for the earache? If she is, you might want to start taking acidophilous now and you can rub some of the powder into her mouth a little bit too. Don't want thrush to crop up next.
I found good results with garlic and mullein oil, dropped into the ear. Sometimes it isn't really an infection, but just an inflammation.
Healing Childhood Ear Infections is a good alt book for this problem.