Is there really anything wrong with nursing her to sleep? No, my daughter is almost 11 months old and still nurses to sleep.
Is it OK to use a Boppy pillow frequently? With my first two, I used the Boppy for the first couple months, but with #3, I used it for a couple days, max. Just depends on your preference, how comfortable you are nursing.
How do you nurse laying down? It really takes practice, with DD#2, it took a good month to figure out, with DD#3, we got the hang of it right away.
Should I be changing the breast pads more than 2-3 times per day? If your using cloth pads, I would change 4-5 times a day, with disposables, whenever they feel wet.
Busy Mama to three beautiful girls and loving wife to my hubby