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I want to start this by saying that I am NOT trying to advocate formula feeding. I strongly believe that breast milk is the best for a child.


I hear mom's IRL and on MDC say that Breastfeeding is SOOO much easier than formula feeding.

I have also read this in a lot of breastfeeding literature.

I found it to be completely untrue, and I am wondering *What* makes people feel that breast feeding is "Easier"?

I had to switch to formula when DS was 5 months old. Long story, and the reasons why are beside the point.

Formula feeding was sooo much easier. It took about 10 percent of the time that breast feeding did and was much more convenient. We used a fresh goats milk formula that we made at home. When we would go out we would bring a really small cooler bag for the bottle, and a thermos of hot water to heat it up with. Yes, that part (bringing more stuff) is harder than breast feeding. But it was so much easier to heat a bottle and be done feeding him in five minutes versus the amount of time (at least 30 minutes) it would have taken to breastfeed him. And I didn't have to worry about nursing bras or breast pads or leaking breasts. I could also ask DP to give him the bottle which is not an option if you are bfing.

Middle of the night feedings were the same thing....keep a little cooler bag right next to the bed with pre made bottles and a thermos of hot water to heat it. I took 2 minutes from the time Owen woke to the time he had his bottle, and I didn't even have to get out of bed. He would be done and ready to go back to sleep within 5 minutes.

With Formula, anyone can help out. It doesn't have to be you who feeds the baby every time. You can actually get a few hours of sleep or go out somewhere without the baby for a while if you need to without having to pump (which was a disaster for us )

I just think it is silly not to acknowledge that there are MANY things about formula feeding that make it much easier for the mom.

That is why a lot of people switch to formula...because they are overwhelmed and it is sooo much easier than breastfeeding.

I have a good friend who has been breastfeeding for the last 2.5 yrs. She has 2 Bio kids that have been Bf'd exclusively, ages 2 yo and 10 mo.
She and I have argued (nicely) about this exact thing for about a year now. She insisted that she couldn't understand why anyone would think formula was easier.
Well, she just adopted an infant, and she is doing Goat milk formula for the first time and she can't BELIEVE how much easier it is. She had just thought that FF would be harder because all the pro breastfeeding literature says that it is.
She and I were talking about this and I thought it would be interesting to get some other opinions.

I would especially like to hear if there are ppl who have done both and found breastfeeding to be much easier over all.

Again, this is not meant to imply in any way that formula is better, or that people should switch to formula w.out a medical reason!!


I just think that if we are going to try to convince someone to bf instead of ff then we should be honest.
Breastfeeding is a huge sacrifice and commitment. It is worth it 150%, and is wonderful for Mom and Baby.
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um...with my four kids, only one would have been easier with formula...and that's ONLY because i had to pump to feed her.

all that bottle-cleaning...all that heating...all that mixing...

when my little ones would wake in the middle of the night, i'd roll over and give them a breast. getting up to fix and warm a bottle would drive me NUTS! i HATED that!

my kids were pretty efficient, they didn't take any longer to nurse than they did to bottle-feed...i'd wonder if the flow was too fast if they had. twenty minutes, tops, with no getting up...no cleaning...no fixing...did i mention no cleaning?

no bottles to buy...or find in the couch...no big diaper bags, just a couple tossed in my bag...
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I've done both, with the same child. Now, I was never able to exclusively BF, so take this w/ a grain of salt.

I found BF much easier. When I finally got DS to nurse, it was mostly at night. He had an oral aversion and didn't fight BFing while asleep. I could just turn over and get 7 hrs of sleep!

FF required me to heat the bottle, sterilize equipment(including my pump) several times a day. PITA. Buy the formula, mix the formula. DS never ate consistent amounts, so I was either throwing the formula out or trying to heat/ make more with a screaming baby. Time really was of the essence.

Now, I didn't have much support and I was pumping what I could for DS. Maybe I got an ounce a day? BFing saved my sanity. It was certainly difficult to do (for us) but worthwhile.
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Speaking as a mom who was able to breastfeed for a while but switched to formula (not going to go into my story here - that's not the point) - I feel that breastfeeding would have been much more convenient:
- can feed wherever, whenever, don't need to wonder if you packed all your feeding supplies in the diaper bag
- you don't have to worry about when you're going to run out, or where to buy on sale, who's got it on sale, and do I have a coupon somewhere?
- there are nipples to wash but it's no big deal since you're in the shower anyway
- no having to make bottles!

I really think that breastfeeding is way more convenient than formula feeding.
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I have bf three children. One of which had to go on formula at 2months. Yes, bf is easier. Of course, it's very subjective and it depends. Some people have difficulties, like I did with ds. If I would have had support, I would like to think that I wouldn't have had such a tough time.

But even with my problems, it is still 100% easier.

I did not find one single thing while bottlefeeding that made it easier or better. Period. Formula feeding was a huge PIA in every regard.

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I don't see how preparing anything and then washing it afterwards, etc. is easier than Simply putting a hungry baby to your breast instantly satifying him. I mean really, i can't see how that could even be considered not the simplest thing ever!

Also, I think I can stand the "sacrifice" of the extra 30 minutes it takes to feed and nourish my child with my milk that is made for him and sustains him and give him the BEST possible start in life.

In regards to night time, my LO is right beside me in bed and as soon as he stirs= Boom! Breast in mouth and we are both back to sleep in a few minutes. No Big Deal!

I don't need anything when I go anywhere besides a few dipes. Wow, I really just can't believe that anyone would think that ff could possibly be easier.
I mean, unless you have medical problems that prevent bf, I think maybe saying it is easier might justify for making excuses. Sorry, but that is my opinion.

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I haven't had to formula feed (yet -- may have to at some point) but it sounds like what makes bf easier for some does not apply to/for others...

For example, I have to wash pump parts so washing bottles versus pump parts is no different. And we have to use bottles during the day since I work outside the house and DS is at a center so we're still cleaning nipples.

Also, since we can't seem to get the hang of nursing in public, I feel pretty limited in what I can do when, etc. Also, I don't want to miss a feeding because it was such an ordeal to build my supply. And I can only pump once while at work all day so I'm constantly worried about losing my supply. I'm starting to feel pretty "tied down" now after only 4 months.

Anyway, just wanted to say that I'm plugging along because I know ebf is a gift I'm giving my DS, one my mom couldn't give to me, and I'll keep doing it as long as I can but I really think in some circumstances it can actually be MUCH more work -- with fewer "benefits" for the parents.

Also, DS refuses to sleep nurse (we can't co-sleep for med reasons so I tried bringing him to our bed then putting him back in his bassinet that's next to our bed) so I have to get up for night feedings. I'm not encouraging him to sleep through the night though because of the supply issues...
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I agree with you... I FF my first and BF my 2nd and 3rd and while I LOVE BFing and wouldnt trade it for anything, it sure as heck is not easier than FFing.
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My first child was formula fed and my 3 week old is exclusively breastfed. So far, breastfeeding is WAY easier. Whenever she's hungry my breasts are right there, no going down to the kitchen in the middle of the cold night to prepare bottles, no having to worry about making bottles when I'm out and about, no worrying about the temperature of the milk, etc...

The ONLY thing I liked better about FF was that DH could do night feedings but that still doesn't make it worth it for me and I could always pump if I really needed him to feed her.

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I don't see how preparing anything and then washing it afterwards, etc. is easier than Simply putting a hungry baby to your breast instantly satifying him. I mean really, i can't see how that could even be considered not the simplest thing ever!

Also, I think I can stand the "sacrifice" of the extra 30 minutes it takes to feed and nourish my child with my milk that is made for him and sustains him and give him the BEST possible start in life.

In regards to night time, my LO is right beside me in bed and as soon as he stirs= Boom! Breast in mouth and we are both back to sleep in a few minutes. No Big Deal!

I don't need anything when I go anywhere besides a few dipes. Wow, I really just can't believe that anyone would think that ff could possibly be easier.
I mean, unless you have medical problems that prevent bf, I think maybe saying it is easier might justify for making excuses. Sorry, but that is my opinion.
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Of course, there are issues that can make breastfeeding difficult, but "lift shirt, attach baby" is really really simple. My husband *hates* it when I'm away and he has to give our son bottles. 2 minutes to prepare something is a loooooong time to a hungry baby. And leaky breasts and breast pads irritating, but that passes eventually.

Being able to let someone else feed the baby every once in awhile (especially during the first few weeks) would have been really lovely, though.

I guess I would say that breastfeeding IS easier, but in the early days it's not always easy.
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I don't see how preparing anything and then washing it afterwards, etc. is easier than Simply putting a hungry baby to your breast instantly satifying him. I mean really, i can't see how that could even be considered not the simplest thing ever!

Also, I think I can stand the "sacrifice" of the extra 30 minutes it takes to feed and nourish my child with my milk that is made for him and sustains him and give him the BEST possible start in life.

In regards to night time, my LO is right beside me in bed and as soon as he stirs= Boom! Breast in mouth and we are both back to sleep in a few minutes. No Big Deal!

I don't need anything when I go anywhere besides a few dipes. Wow, I really just can't believe that anyone would think that ff could possibly be easier.
I mean, unless you have medical problems that prevent bf, I think maybe saying it is easier might justify for making excuses. Sorry, but that is my opinion.

But if it isn't easier then why do women switch to formula when there aren't medical reasons?

Also, it is easier to spend 5 minutes versus 30 feeding your child. Not saying it is better, but it is EASIER which is what I am talking about. Not whether or not it's worth the sacrifice. Of course it's worth it!! ITA with that.
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Being able to let someone else feed the baby every once in awhile (especially during the first few weeks) would have been really lovely, though.

I guess I would say that breastfeeding IS easier, but in the early days it's not always easy.
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Also, it is easier to spend 5 minutes versus 30 feeding your child. Not saying it is better, but it is EASIER which is what I am talking about. Not whether or not it's worth the sacrifice. Of course it's worth it!! ITA with that.
Sure 5 minutes may seem easier(and maybe you have to feed less often) but ask yourself what are the physiological reasons for this? Because formula is not the perfect food for a baby and it does not digest as easily and so it sits in babies gut longer so baby "feels" fuller. Not becuase they don't need to feed as frequently, but because formula does not digest like breastmilk and is sitting in their guts making them feel full.

Also, because you can't really discuss one aspect without the other, are things that seem easier really easier(like you are suggesting that formula can be easier than breastfeeding)? Sure, it is easy for me to whip out a box of lovely kraft mac and cheese for the kids. It is easier and quicker to cook, but what of the nutrition value? Sure, they may fill up, but just because it is easier to fill up on quick processed foods in the short term, doesn't mean it is easier in the long term(depressing the immune system with less than adequate nutrition).

Look at the fact that the U.S. simultaneously has both an obesity epidemic and a malnutrion epidemic going on. Sure, people are full. Full of proccessed foods that meet little if any nutritional standards.

It's also easier to not workout and excercise than it is to do that. Just because something is easier isn't really a good justification for it to be done.

Maybe it does seem easier to ff than to breastfeed, but are the long term health consequences worth it? If you look at the total life of a person, instead of just ff at infancy, formula is so far from being easier, in fact it's much more costly.

Just smells like a red herring to me.
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I've done both since I had to supplement the first few months. I thought breastfeeding was much harder in the beginning, especially when your LO wants to nurse around the clock. I kind of hate the breastfeeding is easier argument, since I think women feel duped (at least I did) when it turns out to be a struggle and your nipples feel like they are going to fall off from 24 hour nursing.

However, at this point (DS is 9 months) it really is sooooo much easier. One of the biggest things I like about breastfeeding is being able to do it hands-free. Right now I am typing this very post with a nursing baby on my lap. Have you ever tried holding a bottle, a baby, and typing at the same time? Not really possible.

It also is a great way to put him to sleep. I hear about formula feeding parents having elaborate bedtime routines that involve rocking, singing, cyring, etc. while I just have to latch DS on at night while I read a book and he's out within 20 minutes or so.

As for people helping with formula feeding - great if you *have* help, but my DH was deployed for the first 4 months after birth and I had no family here at all. I was the one getting up no matter what, so it wouldn't have saved me any time/effort. In any case the work is not really lessened, you're just spreading it around (assuming you have a willing partner and lots of help).
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To answer the op. I personally think breastfeeding was far easier. Although the only thing I have to compare it to is reheating pumped breastmilk. But I have many friends who ff and between health, digestion issues, and the sheer cost of formula alone(meaning extra hours to work, again disputing the ff ios easier claim), washing bottles, preparing bottles in the middle of the night. Nah, I'll take nursing every hour on the hour over that any day. Sorry, but my sleep(and my money, and mine and my babies health) was far to important and I wasn't about to be making any bottles in the middle of the night. Nursing was far easier for me.
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I always found BF relatively easy, but I am a SAHM, who has always been comfortable nursing in public, and mastered breastfeeding in every carrier I own, and I don't own a stroller, or a car. I can definitely see how a mom who needs to work outside the home, or needs to pump, or isn't comfortable with nip, or has to actually sit quietly for the whole feeding each time, or whatever, might find FF easier, because in those cases it wouldn't be as simple as lift shirt, latch on baby. I have super high admiration for women who need to work outside the home, but are dedicated to ebf too, it sounds like a lot of work!
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Sure 5 minutes may seem easier(and maybe you have to feed less often) but ask yourself what are the physiological reasons for this? Because formula is not the perfect food for a baby and it does not digest as easily and so it sits in babies gut longer so baby "feels" fuller. Not becuase they don't need to feed as frequently, but because formula does not digest like breastmilk and is sitting in their guts making them feel full.

Also, because you can't really discuss one aspect without the other, are things that seem easier really easier(like you are suggesting that formula can be easier than breastfeeding)? Sure, it is easy for me to whip out a box of lovely kraft mac and cheese for the kids. It is easier and quicker to cook, but what of the nutrition value? Sure, they may fill up, but just because it is easier to fill up on quick processed foods in the short term, doesn't mean it is easier in the long term(depressing the immune system with less than adequate nutrition).

Look at the fact that the U.S. simultaneously has both an obesity epidemic and a malnutrion epidemic going on. Sure, people are full. Full of proccessed foods that meet little if any nutritional standards.

It's also easier to not workout and excercise than it is to do that. Just because something is easier isn't really a good justification for it to be done.

Maybe it does seem easier to ff than to breastfeed, but are the long term health consequences worth it? If you look at the total life of a person, instead of just ff at infancy, formula is so far from being easier, in fact it's much more costly.

Just smells like a red herring to me.
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I also wanted to bring up the issue of travel. Breastfeeding wins there.

We spent a week in Tokyo a few months ago and it was so awesome not to have to worry about packing enough formula or cleaning bottles in a hotel room. I didn't have to worry about taking enough bottles out while sight seeing or wondering if there would be clean water available somewhere.

The flight was also a breeze since I nursed the whole time. I'd see other moms bottle feed their babies and they would still be fussy and there was really no way for them to calm them down on the plane.
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Sure 5 minutes may seem easier(and maybe you have to feed less often) but ask yourself what are the physiological reasons for this? Because formula is not the perfect food for a baby and it does not digest as easily and so it sits in babies gut longer so baby "feels" fuller. Not becuase they don't need to feed as frequently, but because formula does not digest like breastmilk and is sitting in their guts making them feel full.
No.....it is because they are getting the milk much quicker through a bottle. Also, formula is not the equivalent of Kraft. My son drank Fresh, Local Goats milk that was supplemented with flax seed oil etc.
he digested the Goat's milk much easier than my breast milk.
I never said that he fed LESS FREQUENTLY because he didn't. He ate the same amount whether it was Breast Milk or Goats Milk.
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To me, formula feeding was much easier.

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Guess I should elaborate...

Different things are easier for different people. My good friend can run 5 miles without breaking a sweat but if I tried it....I would be having a heart attack after mile numero uno.

Breastfeeding isn't always easy. But then again, motherhood isn't easy.

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I could also ask DP to give him the bottle which is not an option if you are bfing. {my snip} With Formula, anyone can help out. It doesn't have to be you who feeds the baby every time.
To me, these statements of yours sums up why formula feeding is easier. The mother doesn't have to do it. While breastfeeding, I carried diapers and a change of clothes. I didn't worry about having extra water, formula cans/dispensers, bottles, cooler bags. I didn't leak after the first few weeks. It never took a long time to do it unless the little ones were having growth spurts. The only thing that was time consuming about nursing, for me, was that it was actually ME that had to do it.

And giving a bottle IS an option while breastfeeding. I, however, would choose to pump instead of feeding formula.
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Maybe it does seem easier to ff than to breastfeed, but are the long term health consequences worth it? If you look at the total life of a person, instead of just ff at infancy, formula is so far from being easier, in fact it's much more costly.

Just smells like a red herring to me.

No the long term consequences are not worth it at all.

I never implied that they were.

Breast is Best and I said that in my original post. I don;t think that ff being easier is a good reason not to bf.


So if breastfeeding is so much easier, then why do people switch to expensive formulas? What is the motivation for Formula Feeding? (beyond medical reasons)





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So if breastfeeding is so much easier, then why do people switch to expensive formulas? What is the motivation for Formula Feeding? (beyond medical reasons)
Because they *think* they have medical reasons. Because they think breastfeeding is weird/gross/just a little uncomfortable. Because they've poorly managed their breastfeeding relationship and have ended up with low supply. Because they think they have to watch their diet too carefully. Because they want more freedom. Because they want their partner to "bond" with the baby more. Etc.Etc.Etc.

Edited to add: And I think one of the big ones is feeling too touched out, even if most people don't put it in those words.
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I think that most people don't get through the initial hard period of breastfeeding. Breastfeeding is often quite difficult for the first few weeks, but is much easier afterward. With my son I had to pump and feed him with a medicine dropper for the first few weeks until he learned how to calm down when hungry long enough to latch. This included staying up and waking him up every 1.5 hours to make sure he was eating enough. Most people would have given up if they had to do this. But, after he learned how to latch he never took longer than 15 minutes to eat unless he was going through a growth spurt. I didn't have to get up in the middle of the night or take anything with me but a diaper on short trips. I did have to pump once a day while I was at school, but I didn't find pumping very difficult, and i *could* have given him formula during that time if I had wanted to.

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No the long term consequences are not worth it at all.

I never implied that they were.

Breast is Best and I said that in my original post. I don;t think that ff being easier is a good reason not to bf.


So if breastfeeding is so much easier, then why do people switch to expensive formulas? What is the motivation for Formula Feeding? (beyond medical reasons)
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I understand how you stated your first post, but my brain just does not work like that I can not at anytime make a decision, especially one that affects the life of a child and a mother, without always considering the longterm consequences.

The motivation for formula feeding that I have learned from friends who did, is that they felt like a failure at breastfeeding, they thought their baby was not getting enough because baby wanted to feed so frequently, and bascially being uneducated and having very little, if any at all, support to continue breastfeeding.

When everyone from the doctor, to the nurse to the dh to the mil to the mom is telling someone it's the same, it's like choosing between pepsi and coke, it's much easier to go the ff route because 99 out of 100 times, that woman was already sabtogued by introducing ff to early, or bottles, and they are struggling with nursing. Yeah, when you are having breastfeeding problems, it is much easier to do ff than to stick it out and get the bf right, but people have so little support to do that, that most don't.

So the short answer? No info, no support, and the perception that ff is modern and the same as bf.
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I have never (IRL, I don't know anyone on here, either) met anyone ever who switched to formula b/c it was easier. Because it wasn't "gross", yes, or because they wanted to be able to drink/whatever, yes, b/c of medical issues, yes.

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BFing is often harder than FF in the beginning. In this culture, it's probably USUALLY harder. It sure wasn't easy for us. I have no doubt it was harder than FF in the beginning.

But after 10 weeks, it suddenly became so easy. Going out, we didn't have to plan a whole bag. We could stay out longer than we planned and not worry a bit. Travel is a breeze. Cranky babies and toddlers and easily soothed with a boob. No dishes, etc. I really think for most mothers, BF is easier than FF after the initial hurdle (for some, of course, it's still harder... pumping is hard, for example).

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