Thanks for the welcome!
Looking back, I could see how some things that occured were pregnancy signs, but thery weren't too strong or consistent, so I just brushed them all off. I did not believe I was pregnant at all. No morning sickness to speak of and stuff, but i had a number of long plane fligts and did drink some wine since I had no clue. I have heard that it is not advisable to fly in your first trimester and of course then there's wine too, but I never drink much (half a glass to a glass - just to enjoy the taste and the experience), so for some magic reason I have this inner calm and am sure the baby is fine and was not damaged by any of it. Don't have a clue where that comes from - usually I am the type that always finds something to worry about. *lol*