I'm so sorry I didn't respond sooner, but I don't look at any forums other than the loss forums.
I am so sorry that you had to say goodbye to your daughter, Grace. The anger just rises up in me to know that another amazing woman has to endure such a difficult aspect of motherhood.
I would be honored to hear more about her so I can picture her playing with my son. How much did she weigh? Her length? Did she have any hair? If so, what color? What features did she have of yours? How did you chose her name?