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Old 08-29-2005, 10:46 AM
 
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oh my gosh! I'm at a loss...my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...
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Old 08-29-2005, 10:48 AM
 
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Oh my- this is shocking. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Please utilize your friends here at MDC anytime. Peace.
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i cannot imagine what you must be going thru, i am so so sorry.
hug you new baby lots and ask for help if you need it.
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I'm so very, very sorry for your loss...
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I also wanted to add my condolences...warmth and hugs to you, mama.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you and your family.
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I am so sorry about the loss of your husband. I am SO SORRY!!!

My first husband died when Emma was not quite 5 months old. It was sudden and horrible and I still have not completely dealt with it. I don't think you even can really "deal with it." It's been nearly 4 years now (09/09/01).

I remarried 2 years ago and our son is 11 months old. I know that you probably can't imagine it, but life truly does go on.

Please let me know if you'd like to chat. I'm praying for you.

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Old 08-29-2005, 10:56 AM
 
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I'm not in your group and I am so very sorry to hear of you and your family's loss.
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Old 08-29-2005, 11:00 AM
 
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i am so very sorry.

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Old 08-29-2005, 11:04 AM
 
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I am over in the September due date club but wanted to say I am so sorry and wish there was something we could do. This is one of those times when an emoticon on a message board just doesn't convey what I want it to.
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Old 08-29-2005, 11:06 AM
 
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I am so so sorry,you are all in my thought and prayers.

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"We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." ~ Sir Winston Churchill
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Old 08-29-2005, 11:18 AM
 
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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I am just heartbroken for you....
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Old 08-29-2005, 11:20 AM
 
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I couldn't read and not respond. I'm so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are my thoughts.
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Old 08-29-2005, 11:21 AM
 
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I am so sorry for your loss...

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Old 08-29-2005, 11:22 AM
 
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I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Old 08-29-2005, 11:22 AM
 
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Another couldn't read and not post. I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.

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Old 08-29-2005, 11:30 AM
 
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I'm so sorry mama! Much strength to you!

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I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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words alone are not enough, but I am so sorry for your loss
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I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you get some answers soon.
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peace to your family, hope you have the support you need.
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My deepest sympathy and lots of hugs f or your family. You are in my prayers

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OMG! My heartbreaks for you and your family. I'm sure those 2 weeks meant alot to him and someday your dearchild will know that her daddy got to love her for some time.

good luck to you.
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Old 08-29-2005, 12:03 PM
 
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I am so very, very sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine the heaviness and sorrow in your heart. Long strong hugs to you Mama and praying for peaceful moments for you.

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Oh, Mama, I am so incredibly sorry for you and your dear childrens' loss. Please know that we are all thinking of you and our thoughts and prayers are with you today, tomorrow, next week, next month and a year from now.

Much love and light being sent your way, take care of yourself mama and let us know if we can do anything for you, even if it's just sending hugs via the internet.
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Old 08-29-2005, 12:11 PM
 
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Oh, April. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking of you.
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My heart is so heavy for you... I'm so sorry. Kitty
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I'm so very sorry for the loss of your dear husband. I'm keeping you and your sweet girl in my prayers
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Sending you prayers....

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