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#121 of 209 Old 08-30-2005, 10:12 AM
 
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I'm due in October but when I saw your post I couldn't just ignore it. I am so sorry for your loss. When I came upon your post yesterday I cried for you. I hope you get answers soon so you can begin to find some kind of peace. I hope you have strong family and friends around you for support.

 

 
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#122 of 209 Old 08-30-2005, 10:17 AM
 
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I'm so so sorry. I'm going to send a link to this thread to my sister - she lost her husband very suddenly when their daughter was 5 months old. Maybe she can offer some helpful words.

Peace and strength to you -
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I'm not in your group, but had to reply. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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I am so sorry for your awful loss : :. I'm praying for your family and sending peaceful thoughts.
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OMG!! so so sorry...

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Holding your family in healing light,
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I am so, so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and heart.

Please, let us know what we can do for you.

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I am deeply sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my warmest thoughts at this trying time. May peace be with you all.
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Not in your group, but wanted to offer my condolences. Praying for you and your family.

Dani, wife to Cullen - 9/2002, mom to CJ 11/2004, Billy 12/2007 and Nora 7/2009
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Words aren't enough.
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I'm so very sorry. I hope youfind answers and peace. Thinking of you

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I am so sorry for the loss of your husband and can't even imagine what you are going through right now. We are here if you need to talk/vent.
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Oh my gosh, I am so so sorry. You're in my thoughts. My heart is breaking for you.
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Just adding my voice to the chorus . . .

My thoughts are with you in this terrible time. I am so sorry that the joyous arrival of your daughter has been darkened by such a tragic loss. Please know that you and your children are loved, and that we are all sending lots of strength and care your way.
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#135 of 209 Old 08-31-2005, 11:41 AM
 
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Rainbowmoon! I am so sorry. That is a terrible loss, especially with a newborn. I will be praying for you.....
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I am so sorry for your loss mama!
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I'm so sorry. I cannot imagine how hard this is for you and your family. Sending you hugs.
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it means the world to me to find so much support here as MDC has been a huge outlet for me since becoming a mother. I have very little family nearby and live in a pretty rural area. we do have my FIL/BIL and a few close friends so I do have a small support network in place. i'm not sure at all what I will do, it's so hard to even think right now. but am hoping to sort through things int he coming weeks. right now I'm feeling quite lost and out of touch. being PP doesn't help much and I feel like I can't enjoy my new daughter like I should be. DH memorial service was yesterday and today he was cremated : I also went to the site today where he died in our car which was so difficult. we still have no answers and it looks like it was a health related problem and not a car accident, though we have no clue as to what. I never thought I'd be a widow at the age of 31 please hug your loved ones tight and don't take a minue for granted.

eta- here is an article about my DH death
http://www.nogalesinternational.com/...news/news1.txt

Blissful Mama to DD-(5), DS-(6) and someone new due in November!
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#139 of 209 Old 09-01-2005, 02:09 AM
 
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Rainbowmoon, I am keeping you in my thoughts. I wish I could do more. I'm so sorry.
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like many moms, i am not from this group but does not mean that we are not thinking about you and your family. "One Day at A Time"

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oh what a tragedy, rainbowmoon. i'm totally at a loss.... Prayers and love to you
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I am so very sorry, I don't even have words to express.

You and your sweet children are in my prayers.
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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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You are gone from my sight, but never from my heart



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Oh, Mama... words cannot express how sorry I am to read this... I wish I could offer comfort... Embrace those babies of yours - they will give you warmth.

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I'm so sorry for your loss and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Hold your little ones close as you all need each other right now.
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Oh mama, I am so sorry for your loss. How sudden and scary for you. You are in my thoughts and my heart
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Mama, many s being sent to you. What a terrible loss you are suffering. I'm so sorry.
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G-d bless you and your baby.... for your Dear Departed Husband.

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I am so very sorry. Prayers for you and your family.
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