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#181 of 209 Old 10-01-2005, 11:53 PM
 
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I just saw that this had popped up on the new post list. I cannot begin to imagine what you must be going through. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the grief you must be feeling.

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My prayers and thoughts are with you, mama. I pray for peace, and support for you during this horrible time.

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I am truly sorry for your loss.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know that the last couple of months must have been hard, but I hope all is well with you, your baby girl and her big brother.
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thanks for your support mamas it's been hard, but we are getting by

Blissful Mama to DD-(5), DS-(6) and someone new due in November!
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OH mama. I'm sooooooooooooooooooo sorry

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I am so sorry for your loss
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thanks for thinking of us mamas. your support makes me feel a little less alone in the world.

Blissful Mama to DD-(5), DS-(6) and someone new due in November!
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Not from your Due Date club, but compelled to post.

With deepest hugs and warmest thoughts during this dark time. Your children are so lucky to have such a strong mama.



XOXO
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mama to Milena Anjali (4/26/06) and Vincent Asher (4/13/09) ~ married to the love of my life since 2002.
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so sorry momma.

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I'm so very sorry for your loss. You and your children and in my prayers.
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i am soooo very sorry.

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thanks mamas. the police are on the verge of closing the case (I hope) and releasing the autopsy/toxocoloy reports and my car back to me. I have been sort of depressed over it all the last couple of days.

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Im so sorry You must feel like your reliving it again with the closer of the case.
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April, I only JUST found out about this. I don't normally read sig lines so I had absolutely no idea.

I am so very sorry for the loss of you dear husband. I can't imagine what you are going through.

May the Goddess hold you in her arms during your grief.
I hope your beloved husband watches over your children (and you). Talk to him and know that he can hear you...Wherever he may be.

I am in tears right now just thinking about your incredible sadness. I will send you a pm to talk about more personal/spiritual issues.

Much love & Peace,
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#197 of 209 Old 11-07-2005, 12:02 PM - Thread Starter
 
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awww thanks so much for your comtinues support mamas. It means the world to me and makes me smile when I read your posts. I can feel the love that connects us as MDC sisters.

Blissful Mama to DD-(5), DS-(6) and someone new due in November!
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All the love and hugs and blessings and strength in the world to your and your little ones, mama. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Please know you are not alone but are surrounded by love and light from all of us.
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I just wanted to stop by and give you a hug and let you know I was thinking of you. Sending love and support to you and your family. You are in my prayers.

Zen doula-mama to my spirited DS1 (2/03), my CHD (TAPVR) warrior DS2 (6/07) & a gentle baby girl (8/09)
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How are you holding up, mama?

I truly do know what you're feeling. *hugs*
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I am doing ok. for the most part anyway! Some days are better than others. I miss him alot, but have learned life really does go on. My kids have provided me with the greatest comfort as well as everyone else I know (all of you MDC mamas included). I have realized just how lucky I am and how much I have. The police investigation is still ongoing. who knows when it will be closed. it seems like they have no idea themselves, so that's exasperating in itself. I am just oblivious to it all at this point.

Blissful Mama to DD-(5), DS-(6) and someone new due in November!
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Please post or pm me through the holidays...the cold and the sparkles can make one very lonely...

Make them festive for your dear children.

"The great enemy of the truth is very often not the lie, deliberate, contrived and dishonest, but the myth, persistent, persuasive and unrealistic."
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(((Huggs)))
You will find your path to healing. Blessings to your family mama

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I am taking the kids to Disneyland for Thanksgiving. We are staying home for xmas though. DH & I were never real big on either though. NYE will be the hardest for me as that was "our" holiday. I will PM you Applejuice!

Blissful Mama to DD-(5), DS-(6) and someone new due in November!
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rainbowmoon, I recognized your name and had to respond with a hug. I've been offline so much this fall and had no idea about this thread. I know you don't know me, but I think we may have posted to some of the same threads in the past and I just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you and your precious babes. Hang in there. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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So very sorry for your loss.. I can not imagine the pain you are going through.. {{{{huggss}}}}

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