I am so tempted to join this discussion but have to be so careful that I don't get into a three page rant.
My DH is usually just that....however lots is going on in life, he was given a promotion but they wanted him to stay on at his current job to cover while someone is off on medical leave....he did that and then Sept 1 was suppose to move on...to date he has heard nothing. And now his company is threatening to strike....it is all a bit much with a baby on the way but really suck it up! That is all beyond his control!
Instead he is being a real terd to me.
I went to a blood hematologist about a year ago and he came with me....she went into a big rant about how if a women's body is completely heathly that she WILL NOT experience morning sickness and all the ailments that are"supposedly" part of pregnancy. She was saying that all these ailments are a result of unhealthy blood and thus the fault of the women.
DH LOVES that one...he said he would be more apathetic to me if he didn't know all that!
It is bad though....last night I let loose on him.
Our car needs new tires, I bought some and got it an appointment for it after he is done work today. I don't get off work till 4:30pm and no shop will take the car that late...and he FLIPPED as to why it is his responsibility to take the car in!
: This is a man that thrives on doing things and taking care of me in the MANLY ways so I was like "Huh??" And he was furious that I think it is his responsibility to take car of "my" car (it's only mine when he doesn't want it kind of thing, otherwise it is ours!) I was very taken back cause he had NOTHING planned to do after work and said "FINE I will get off work early so that I can take it in...WHATEVER! Who knew it would be any kind of a deal never mind this HUGE of one!"
So then of course he gets thinking about it and comes back later to tell me that he will take it in. He doesn't mind. I said "NO WAY. It's obviously some big issue for you so I will do it"
Guaranteed he will get off work, pick up our son then come down and sit with me at the shop because it is something he enjoys being involved in...and that will just annoy me.
Because WHAT WAS THE BIG DEAL???
And my favorite part? He tells me after all this that he was just joking that he doesn't mind taking the car in at all and that I just took his joke seriously!
Alrightttttty then! :LOL
Besides myself walking an emotional high wire I think he is too.....
Incredibly strange what this pregnancy is doing to us!