Bevin is annoying...I feel for her because I think he'll pick Tessa because she's more "stable" and I think Bevin is going to be crushed! I think they are editing so much it makes it very hard to figure out what's going on.
I can see Tessa as more an officer's wife though, and a doctor's wife. What I mean about the independence thing/military wife is that I'm not sure she'd be willing to give up everything to move for "his job",etc like most spouses do. As much as I have my "own" life it still rotates around my husband's job, just the nature of the beast. (I'm a Navy wife, have been for over 12 yrs) I'm not sure if Tessa could accept that sort of thing.
We'll find out next week, LOL!! He is professing he's in love though, a friend of mine went to a local charity thing he did (a few weeks ago) and he talked a little bit about the show, saying he had found true love,etc.