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Originally Posted by zoebird
i recommend that you remind your husband that this is your body and your birth.
i recommend that you remind your husband that he doesn't "Let" you do anything. YOu choose to do things and you take his feelings into consideration when making decisions. YOu do not "let" him make decisions for you and you do not "Let" his judgement overturn your own.
i'm sorry that his fears are clouding his ability to see your wisdom.
|I was just under the impression that even with a UC, you often need some help (like the post about dystocia positioning, etc.)|
|I don't believe that anything happens by chance.|
|However, your husband will have a LOT of responsibility at a UC. From everything I've read on these boards, husbands often are expected to help with positioning, cord, etc. Sounds like he's just not up for it.|
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