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#1 of 3 Old 06-08-2007, 02:52 PM - Thread Starter
 
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ten months ago, dh and i had a lovely UC with ds, and now we're looking forward to another in winter!

i'm so excited and so nervous. for some reason, i feel like i've forgotten everything ... guess because i haven't been researching like crazy. anyway, i've got plenty of time to prepare.

we've been thinking a/b hiring a "hands-off" midwife, just in case. we ended up taking ds to the hospital after the birth (his face was blue ... turns out it was just bruising -- a lot of bruising -- b/c his head's so big. bless his heart, he takes after his daddy ), it was AWFUL and they obviously treated him differently b/c he was born at home. they kept him under an oxygen thingy and wouldn't let him sleep with me for 2days. i know it interfered with our bonding and want to avoid the hospital at all costs this time. soooo ... who has experience and suggestions with UC vs. hands-off midwife? ...

i know i have plenty of time to decide, but i'm already in baby mind mode. hehe ... yay ! !
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Congratulations! I wonder if you could just find a midwife who would be willing to do a post partum exam? I don't think you would want a midwife there if you liked your previous UC.
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Congratulations! I wonder if you could just find a midwife who would be willing to do a post partum exam? I don't think you would want a midwife there if you liked your previous UC.
Agreed- we have awesome UC friendly midwives around here and they're available to me following my birth if I feel like I need anything checked out (re: tears or concerns about the baby).

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