ten months ago, dh and i had a lovely UC with ds, and now we're looking forward to another in winter!
i'm so excited and so nervous. for some reason, i feel like i've forgotten everything
... guess because i haven't been researching like crazy. anyway, i've got plenty of time to prepare.
we've been thinking a/b hiring a "hands-off" midwife, just in case. we ended up taking ds to the hospital after the birth (his face was blue ... turns out it was just bruising -- a lot of bruising -- b/c his head's so big. bless his heart, he takes after his daddy
), it was AWFUL and they obviously treated him differently b/c he was born at home. they kept him under an oxygen thingy and wouldn't let him sleep with me for 2days. i know it interfered with our bonding and want to avoid the hospital at all costs this time. soooo ... who has experience and suggestions with UC vs. hands-off midwife? ...
i know i have plenty of time to decide, but i'm already in baby mind mode. hehe ... yay ! !