I would have to have a life or death reason to interrupt nursing relationship. oral surgery doesn't do it for me. especially a 2 yo? I would research more on why they think they need to do an oral surgery. I would postpone the surgery appt until you know more and find it to have the benefits outweigh the bad side (which would have to have death in it for me personally), or the LO is older and able to comprehend. teeth are not l or d to me, but i know some others feel differently. i followed dental work on dd1 (not a surgery or anything, this is just as an aside...)and it seriously emotionally scarred her. i use preventative measures now like probiotics to keep up good bacteria, vitamin d daily, water for drinking most of the time, no processed foods, no HFCS, and very little items with white sugar. I will not take dd2 the traditional dentist route.
To begin to save the world, we must first nurture the children. Read "The Continuum Concept: In Search of Happiness Lost"
11 yo dd1-
; 6 yo dd2-
, 6 yo ds1