Took DD (3.5yrs) to her first dental exam and got alot of heat for the non flouride choices I've made. As it turns out she has 8 cavities!! They are all in the back and are due to her teeth being so tight together. The plan of care was 1) general anesthesia to get all 8 done at once or 2) try to do two at a time in 4 separate appointments with DD awake. They want to do 7 fillings and 1 crown, which is basically a root canal! When I told them I needed to discuss the options with her father first they warned me that they would call CYS if I didn't contact them back to proceed. I was mortified and I'm sure it was all stemming from the flouride choices! At this point I am wondering if I should even go back to them. I'd like to find a holistic dentist and get a 2nd opinion on the treatment plan. Is it me or does it seem crazy to treat her in the ways they suggested? I am not (yet) informed on any of this and I feel so ignorant right now. Any help or suggestions would be great! TIA!