My biggest stress is that my DH's job does not provide dentsl insurance so all of this is out of pocket. For the two cavities next week, it will cost us $768. I am not sure what to do. All of the private insurances seem expensive or fishy. And then I wonder if these teeth truly need to be fixed right now. She won't need anesthesia. Just a little laughing gas like last time. He said from prep to finish it will be 5-10 minutes like last time. So I am wondering if they are just overly proactive or if this truly needs to be addressed right now.
I guess I am not sure what I am asking you guys. I am just so stressed about the money. Any thoughts on any of my ramblings? Do any of you have private dental insurance? It is much appreciated.
Have you thought about applying for the state children's health program? Those generally cover dental care.
Midwife (CPM, LDM) and homeschooling mama to:
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My sister is in dental school, and she said that a lot of times the reason toddlers get cavities is from the saliva of their parents. The bacteria or cavities in our mouths get transferred when we share bites of food etc. I still do it! (and I've put off dental visits for fear of what they will find!) good on you for getting them checked! I would check with the dentist and explain the situation and see how essential they feel it is to do right now.
I have heard this and while I try to avoid sharing things, it's impossible to do some times!! I will call my dentist and see what they think. Even pushing it back could help save some more money. Thanks for the suggestion.
I checked into a link that someone posted on another thread, but we make too much money. It really sucks that if you are low income you get free dental care for your kids, but if you make what they consider too much, you are stuck with high bills that you struggle to pay.
Hoping this is the last of her cavities...
Thanks for your suggestion though!
I have very naturally brittle teeth, and even with dental insurance regularly pay thousands out of pocket so I hear your woes. Honestly sometimes its just genetics- and its a huge burden. I would search for a dental school near you- the students will practice on you but these are more advanced students and its under the supervision of the professor who will be RIGHT there watching the whole time making sure they're doing it correctly. Usually the cost is much much less and a fraction of normal dentistry. Theres also some clinics that offer reduced cost dental care on a sliding scale basis or in some cases, free care (its much easier to get for children vs adults so this is a good thing for your child).
If all else fails most dental offices take Care Credit. It allows you to pay it off long term (about a year I think for that amount) with no interest. Hope this helps
I don't know what dental insurance costs but probably more than what you have paid out of pocket, including this, over the past two years.
This is certainly true of regular health insurance. Every time I pay $100 or fill a prescription it feels like a lot of money, but family health insurance would be around $1000 per month and I would still have little copays here and there. I think I've spent less than $1000 on medical expenses in the past three years, while if we were "responsible" and had insurance we would have paid over $30,000! That is such an awful "just in case" bargain :(
I suspect dental insurance would be the same. If you are even an above average user, you would still receive fewer benefit dollars than what they pay because the money also funds the company, its shareholders, its employees and office space and then what is left is what's available for benefits. Actual dental bills are paid with what is left.
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