Thanks so much for replying Smilemomma! I think the tooth is tightening up already, though I'm afraid to push on it much. It does appear to be just a hair farther back than before. It's hard to tell, as that tooth has been disked, and is already a different shape than the other one. Will that affect whether or not the adult tooth comes in straight?
She has quite a purple, bruised lip though, with teeth marks in it. It has bled quite a bit under the skin. I started giving her Arnica right away. Thanks for suggesting it, it confirmed what I did. She seems only to have had pain right after the injury, and I think the bloody lip really scared her. She had a night terror yesterday for the first time in 9 months. I thought we were over those.
We don't vaccinate, so I wonder if the teeth marks in her lip (now look white, surrounded by purple bruise) are a problem. I know the cuts are wet, since she's licking them, so I assume that is what the white is from. The swelling is going down. Does this sound like a tetanus risk? I disinfected with calendula and hypericum solution about an hour after the incident. Maybe I should start her on Ledum Pal? Maybe this is the wrong board for this question.
I loved your breastmilk ice pop idea. She would LOVE that, if only I could pump enough milk to make one. Even in the early days, my breasts were only receptive to a baby. I rented a great pump, but could only get a couple ounces total every few hours (probably because she nursed so often). I found out in December that I have autoimmune thyroid disease. Now I know why I didn't have that much milk to start off with.
Well, thanks again for your info and comfort. I'm so glad you're here to help.