Katambra ~ it sounds like your son could benefit from a consultation with an oral surgeon, but you could start by asking your dentist.
Let us know what they recommend & what they decide
Anyway, they are going to call me with a referral to an oral surgeon. I had the same thing done when I was about the same age as dd, and I remember it. It was done by our pediatrician. The dentist, however, said that nowadays it is the job of an oral surgeon. I'd like to know if anyone else has experience of this. I did a search and found that someone mentioned having an 8mo with a tongue tie operated on under general anesthesia. But I wonder about a 3yo.
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