You'd think it'd be common sense not to give coke to a toddler, but it's not in this situation. I didn't see the coke incident happen. We were in a group sitting at a long table. I was tending to DD, at the other end, DH was sitting next to her but was ordering. We both caught that at the same time. The popsicle happened at SILs house. Nephew is the same age as DS, and SIL started him on things like sweet tea around a year. SIL gave the first one to DS while I was nursing DD and didn't see it happen. I always ask before feeding a kid, even a family member, so I was kind of surprised. I caught MIL just after she handed it to DS. I was in another room talking to SIL.