I have first noticed DD stare off into nowhere about two weeks ago. We were in the car and I had stopped at a store and went to unbuckle DS. I look over to her and say "Hey mama" No response so I called her name but still no response. I called her name again, getting panic-y, but she still wouldn't respond. I kinda lost it there and jumped over DS's seat and just kinda grabbed DD and shook her seat while unbuckling her. That's when she came back, crying and srcreaming. I was a mess, she was a mess and we all needed a minute or two until we could keep going.
So now today we were in the car again and she's talking and playing back there with DS and suddenly it's quiet. I asked DS (he's 3) if sister was sleeping and he said "No, baby is awake" and I look back and see her head just bobbing around but yet she must have had her eyes open. Also, her thumb wasn't in her mouth and she ALWAYS does that when she's going to sleep or sleeping. So I started to shake her seat a little bit (we were driving over a bridge so there was no way to stop for me) but no response. I had to shake it quite a bit and then she came back crying again.
I don't know what to make of it. Both incidents happened in the car, while driving. Both times she might have been tired but it wasn't around naptime or anything.
Other than that DD is normal. I haven't seen any weird behaviour, she talks, plays, laughs etc a lot so this staring thing just seems kind of off to me.
Maybe someone here has made a similar experience.
I'm hoping it's something weird like that, one of those oddly deep sleeps that you can get with naps when things line up just right.
if it is a problem may it be figured out fast with an easy solution!
I worked with a teenage boy who was having seizures, and that was the only symptom. He would sit there and get an strange vacant look in his eyes for a minute or two and would be unresponsive. He never had a memory of it.
The fact that she is crying/upset when she comes out of it is what would make me worry a little.
Does she do it at any other times? If it's a new thing, keep an eye out and see if it's happening at home when she's tired, eating, playing etc.
Is there anyway you could have your vid. camera ready to record it? - it would help show the dr.
That does sound very scary and I hope it's nothing.
Single, student mama to 3 boys
She only did it in the car so far. I have never noticed it at home or anywhere else.
If it looks like I'm trying to pick a fight... I'm not, I'm rarely that obvious.
Jesus-loving Doula/Birth Photographer Mama to Tor 4/2007, Zion 11/2009, Enoch 11/2011, and Zephyr due 12/13/2013
I know it has been some years since this post. Did you find out what the blank stares were? My daughter just did this and when searching for information, your post came up. I am freaked out by it and thought I had lost my daughter when she wasn't responding. Thank you!