Hey, (NAK)
I am feeling like crap lately. My lo (3 in January) Talks about her Daddy all day long. "where is my daddy" "Gotta wait for Daddy" ect. ect. If he happens to be here she treats me like crap... Pushes me away and even smacks me.
Since she has been born I have been the one doing EVERYTHING for her. He didn't even know where the diapers were last time I asked him to change her, he has never bathed her, never brushed her teeth, never really played with her. Its always been ME!! He even is pretty mean to her. She begs him to play with her or read her a book and I normally end up doing up.
My dh is self employed so he is working a lot and comes home late. If he isn't working he is out with his buddies drinking...
I am soooo crushed that she pushes me away when he is around. That she is always asking for him. WHY???? Is this normal? Will I ever *get her back* I sometimes get angry at her for being soooo mean to me... I feel like I am the one doing all this stuff with her so I deserve her love. kwim?
Man I am totally in tears... I feel like I am going something wrong..
Please tell me Mamas that this is normal and will pass... I hate feeling like this... I want my Mommies girl back
I am feeling like crap lately. My lo (3 in January) Talks about her Daddy all day long. "where is my daddy" "Gotta wait for Daddy" ect. ect. If he happens to be here she treats me like crap... Pushes me away and even smacks me.
Since she has been born I have been the one doing EVERYTHING for her. He didn't even know where the diapers were last time I asked him to change her, he has never bathed her, never brushed her teeth, never really played with her. Its always been ME!! He even is pretty mean to her. She begs him to play with her or read her a book and I normally end up doing up.
My dh is self employed so he is working a lot and comes home late. If he isn't working he is out with his buddies drinking...
I am soooo crushed that she pushes me away when he is around. That she is always asking for him. WHY???? Is this normal? Will I ever *get her back* I sometimes get angry at her for being soooo mean to me... I feel like I am the one doing all this stuff with her so I deserve her love. kwim?
Man I am totally in tears... I feel like I am going something wrong..
Please tell me Mamas that this is normal and will pass... I hate feeling like this... I want my Mommies girl back