I would like some mothers opinions here, as I am hoping I'm making the right decision here... My 2 year old hasn't seen her grandparents since she was 2 months old- my dh and I cut them out of our lives, before you judge!- the last thing that broke me was them talking smack about my daughter, yes, they are sick SICK people, and there's lots of brainwashing and emotional abuse going on in that house- I needed security when I tried to push my daughter out cuz I needed an emergency c section and mil wanted to be in the room and wasn't allowed so she tried to break in, and she harassed me right before being taken away to be cut open that I need to refuse cuz it will scar me for life... Needed security again when they visited the next day cuz she fought with security to let her little kids up to visit, when there's a rule in the hospital for no kids under 14, and she bitched.... There were misunderstandings, and when things didn't go my in laws way, they would blatantly lie to my hubby's siblings and they would call and harass us... Same with our wedding, it was hell with them, my parents don't know how I did it... They r also very religious, but in a damaging way and since my hubby and I didn't get our daughter baptized they pretty much don't care for her, she is a toy to my mil and my fil refused to hold her even on the times he rarely got to see her... They are a sick cult like dangerous family, but on the surface they are fine.. Since we cut them from our lives and told them that they are no longer allowed to contact us, they haven't which is great.. But they are spreading rumors in their church of us, and going through others to make them out to be the victim when I have done as much as I could to be nice to them always, but they are lunatics, it's their way or the highway and the religion is 90% of it, the way they do it... Since my sil and fil trash talked my daughter to me through text and email because they THOUGHT something bad was said to my precious mil, when it was actually nothing, mil must not have taken her meds that day and said that we were being mean- I want them away from my daughter forever!!! Never have they apologized and the rest of my husbands family abandoned him, mostly cuz he hasn't been a big part of the church so they don't want to associate with non members... They are messed up!
But what do I tell my daughter in the future?? Oh sorry honey, ur grandpa and aunt said they aren't find of u and don't care for u, and actually meant it? My sil did confirm she meant what she said about my innocent baby... I fear for her future, I don't want them near her, and I wish we had gotten a restraining order when we had the chance... What do I tell my daughter when she's older? How do i protect her from them and their cult religious ways? My husband is behind me all the way, if anyone was wondering, he's the one who called them and said stay away forever.
But what do I tell my daughter in the future?? Oh sorry honey, ur grandpa and aunt said they aren't find of u and don't care for u, and actually meant it? My sil did confirm she meant what she said about my innocent baby... I fear for her future, I don't want them near her, and I wish we had gotten a restraining order when we had the chance... What do I tell my daughter when she's older? How do i protect her from them and their cult religious ways? My husband is behind me all the way, if anyone was wondering, he's the one who called them and said stay away forever.