Dd has always been picky about her clothes - won't wear tight shirts or straight skirts, socks that bunch on her toes, slippers, etc...but we can work around those things. She has thus far refused to wear winter coats, saying that they are "too puffy" or too big. I got her into one for a trip to the park once, but other than that I've have to let her wear her fall fleece for trips to and from the car. But now there's snow on the ground. We zipped her in to her snowsuit this afternoon and she melted onto the floor like a noodle and curled into a ball. It was heartbreaking.
What is this? Claustrophobia? The snowsuit is not tight at all. We tried one that was a bigger size with the same results. Has anyone else seen this? What can I do?
Aw...poor baby. No ideas other than maybe she's too hot? Or has some sensory issues? Anyone have a shared experience or some advice for this mama?
My dd just wears layers of her big sister's outerwear instead so there's plenty of room for her. It's not below zero very often here though..not sure if that would work in a really cold climate.
My 20mo DD hates her snowsuit with a passion because it has hand-covers. It's kind of like built-in mittens. She tried to pick up snow and flipped out because she couldn't. She also hates the fact that she has a hard time moving. We don't spend a whole lot of time outdoors in the winter, so she usually just wears a regular coat and hat. I'm going to try and find some mittens she'll tolerate but I don't know if she'll put up with anything on her hands.
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I would definitely try a two-piece if you can--if it's really cold, layering really isn't likely to be much more comfortable unless it's all expensive high tech fabrics she'll outgrow in two months.. I'd get the least uncomfortable snowsuit I could find, weather the freakout if necessary, then take the toddler to do something super-fun (tobogganing? Snow fort?) that would be impossible without a snowsuit. Once the toddler learns that a snowsuit is the price of entry for fun in the snow, she'll probably get resigned to the suit and excited about the activities.
I did let my almost 3 year old son go out for about 1.5 minutes in a light jacket. The next 3 times we went out, he actually asked for the big coat. I let reality do the job instead of me.
Both my kids have this struggle, as do I myself. I find that often if I can get them past the first flash of having something on, then they're fine. With the older one, I'd put the sock and shoe on, or the snow pants, and then tickle him [he loves to be tickled]. Tickling him would get him adjusted somehow. The younger one isn't quite as intense, and I've just distracted him right after putting whatever on, the few times I've needed to.
Also, my kids run MUCH warmer than me - they are actually really hot wearing the same amount that I would be comfortable in. They also like their bath/shower water a lot cooler than me.