Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: How did I end up in FL?!!!
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Days ago I was faced with an issue I never thought I would have to address, but I just don't know if how I handled it was correct. I have 3 children 7,4,2. They have always bathed together, slept together, played together. We do everything as a family always. My older daughter is in school, and my younger is in a regio amellia preschool program for a few hrs 2 days a week. Oter than that we are always together. The other morn, I bathed my 2 little ones as I always have. They get bubbles, and toys, and play for 30mins or so. I get dressed in the bathroom, or do something within range of hearing/sight. I heard my daughter say to my son for him to "put his finger in her body" I reacted with dissaproval, and explained how ones body is private, and noone touches but herself, mama/doc when caring for her. She has been read books, and we have had family talks because my older daughter is in school. In other words I thought I had made this clear! She seemed upset, that I was up set,a nd has not mentioned it since, or repeated this behavior. I do not make a big deal out of masturbation in our household, as I think is better left alone, they loose intrest in it so fast why draw attention to something so normal? But this of couyrse is not ok, and is not acceptable. Please tell me if you have had similar experiances with multiple children. Thanks ~Peace be to you, and yours~ Jess