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Old 05-01-2008, 12:22 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Hi, all!

It's May! Is it true - our babies will be a year and a half old this month????

Earlybirds
Sydney 7-27 (home from hospital 11-16)
Gabrielle 10/23

November 1
Aaron 11/1
Benton 11/1
Morgan 11/1

November 2
Anna 11/2
Conchobhar 11/2
Georgia 11/2
Noah 11/2
Otto 11/2

November 3
Avishai 11/3
Devin 11/3
Hana Rae 11/3
Ilana 11/3
Porter 11/3

November 4
Abbi True 11/4
Aislyn 11/4
Chloe 11/4
Elijah 11/4
Raphael 11/4

November 5
Alex 11/5
Atticus 11/5
Ben 11/5
Lilienne 11/5

November 6
Clayton 11/6
Eden 11/6
Ian 11/6
Ollie 11/6

November 7
Florian 11/7
Jema Bear 11/7
Lillie 11/7
Peter 11/7
Ruck Turner 11/7

November 8
Ella 11/8
Millie 11/8

November 9
Eli 11/9
Guillaume 11/9
Magnus 11/9
Ruby 11/9
Kamden 11/9
Sophia 11/9

November 10
Erik 11/10
Evangeline Lily Marie 11/10

November 11
Siann 11/11

November 12
Alex 11/12
Colin 11/12
Ethan 11/12
Ingrid 11/12
Vivian 11/12

November 13
Elijah 11/13
Jaxon 11/13
Nyx 11/13

November 14
Emerson 11/14
Zeben 11/14

November 15
Dov 11/15
Elijah 11/15
Fynn 11/15
Mikaela 11/15
Miriam 11/15
Nell 11/15

November 16
Aiden 11/16
Ava 11/16
Lea 11/16
Luca 11/16
Simi 11/16

November 17
Isabella 11/17
Landis 11/17
Morgan 11/17
Nate 11/17
Talia 11/17
Gracie 11/17
Warren 11/17

November 18
Jericho 11/18
Joseph 11/18
Ryan 11/18
Seraphina Judith 11/18

November 19
Carl 11/19
Landon 11/19
Liam 11/19
Ruby Isabella 11/19
Theron 11/19
Trenton 11/19

November 20
Corbyn Jack 11/20
Fiona 11/20
Kira 11/20
Libby 11/20
Morrigan 11/20

November 21
Aidan Maxwell 11/21
Ayla Dawn 11/21
Elijah 11/21
Greyson 11/21
Liam 11/21
TJ 11/21

November 22
Darwin 11/22

November 23
Ambrose 11/23
Benjamin Louis 11/23
Lucy 11/23
Owen 11/23
Yarrow 11/23

November 24
Alison Anna 11/24
Carter 11/24
Lily 11/24
Maaike 11/24
Marissa 11/24

November 25
Asheby 11/25
Quincy 11/25
Liam 11/25
Dorothy 11/25

November 26
Yasmeen 11/26
Omiros 11/26

November 27
Adam 11/27
Dominic 11/27
Indigo 11/27
Jonathon 11/27
Mara 11/27
Mackenzie 11/27
Nicholas 11/27


November 28
Abhainn 11/28
Colleen Rosemary 11/28
Joaquin 11/28
Khéna 11/28
Leroy 11/28
Macy 11/28
Owen 11/28
Scott 11/28
Yossi 11/28
Kaeleigh 11/28
Melvin 11/28
Maya 11/28

November 29
Aubrey 11/29
Layla 11/29

November 30
Alex 11/30
Eleanor 11/30
Jackson 11/30
Logan 11/30
Mila 11/30
Rosalyn 11/30
Sophia 11/30

Running Total: 138 Babies!


PLEASE chime in if your little one is not on the list.


All are welcome to come and chat with us. We're a friendly, welcoming group, celebrating our November 2006 babes, our other kids, our families and each other.
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Subbing and welcome to May! I saw that Midnight Commando also posted a thread. You guys must've posted at exactly the same time...Which one will we use??

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hahaha. I did rock paper scissors, 2green was the right hand, I was the left hand. Looks like you won

How do I delete the other post? the title I mean?

anyhoo, this is what I wrote on my now defunct thread:

Things have been insanely busy here. Still working on the remodel, trying to get the yard and garden ready for summer, etc. Sadly, I told our current daycare yesterday that we would only be there for 2 more weeks. I don't want to switch and I love the situation so much, but we cannot continue to afford it

gotta run - DD is trying to smash banana into the keyboard...

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Greetings! Can't believe we are hitting 18 months!

Millie had a trial in the toddler room at her nursery yesterday and wasn't convinced! She took one step inside and ran out again! She stayed up there for an hour though so I guess she got used to it! I thought she'd be moving up in September but they're hoping to move her up before that!

I've got the potty down from the loft today and put it in the bathroom so she can get used to it. Might even see if she'll sit on it at bathtime. We'll see!

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I'm thinking about the potty too. Diapers do not please me with all this solids-eating!
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hahaha. I did rock paper scissors, 2green was the right hand, I was the left hand. Looks like you won
Are you sure?
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So, how have nights been going for everyone lately? Atticus goes down between 7-8, is usually up for a nursing around 12 and then again around 3. He's up for the day between 7-8. How's everyone else doing? The two times a night are tolerable, but not really ideal, kwim?

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So, how have nights been going for everyone lately? Atticus goes down between 7-8, is usually up for a nursing around 12 and then again around 3. He's up for the day between 7-8. How's everyone else doing? The two times a night are tolerable, but not really ideal, kwim?

I hesitate to say this, but DD has been going down at 7pm and getting up at 6am. I traded places with DH so I'm sleeping on the other side of the bed from her so perhaps the aroma of fresh milk isn't reaching her?
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Millie had a bad night last night - she's gone into her summer sleeping bags and has been wearing pjs with no vest as it's been quite warm here. Think lsat night must have been colder. She was basically up between 12 and 3 with much toing and froing between our room and hers. She wouldn't settle in with us. In the end we had to just shut her door and leave her to it. She didn't cry for long though and slept through till 7.

Normally she goes down around 7.15pm and sleeps through till gone 7am! Mind you she's been sleeping well since 8 weeks. Would you like me to leave now?

Am I the only one who doesn't co-sleep or still bf?

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Am I the only one who doesn't co-sleep or still bf?
We are no longer nursing here and we are doing what you might call "on-demand" co-sleeping (is there such thing??). We pretty much go into her room at bed time and if she climbs into her bed and lays down with no fuss then that's where she sleeps. If she puts up a fuss at all then we just put her in our bed and she goes right to sleep

About 2 weeks ago she was having a rough time of it but her sleeping pattern has gone back to normal now. She goes to bed at 9 and sleeps until somewhere between 7:30 and 8:30.

Abbi will hit 18 months on sunday and it's toooo soon! we were wanting to wait until next year to ttc but as each day goes by i get a deeper yearning to start sooner.......didn't we JUST give birth????!!!

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We don't co-sleep anymore. We stopped when Atticus was maybe 10 mos or so. Every once in a while, he'll lay down w/ us, but it's not a normal thing.

I do feel like I just gave birth, but I am def ready for another one.

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Uhhh maybe I'm the abnormal one we are co sleeping and nursing on demand. although I think we are out of sheer laziness on my part Magnus has 4 molars coming in and all 4 of his eye teeth too. The nursing allows him to continue to sleep pretty well considering. I am considering night weening once the teeth have all broke through cause I'm not sleeping well. I think that I will try to make it to two years old with breastfeeding, I tried with my second dd and made it to 20 months. I have a very love hate relationship with nursing right now.
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Dang! I've got to work on that night weaning.... but something always prevents me. We are still sleeping with Carl, although his toddler bed is right next to mine and he'll nap in that. Carl still nurses once or twice at night and I'd go through the week of 'pat-pat-pat' with him to get him out of the habit; but every time I'd like to try he manages to get sick or be getting his eye teeth or something is out of whack.

I'd love #3 but am committed to my skinny jeans this summer!

We have the little potty out, but boys are tricky! I guess I have to teach him to poke his penis down there, or he's going to get an eyeful! We have a lovely, simple wooden potty... I hope I don't end up investing in one of those Boon things with the penis shield.

Carl likes to pee down the heat vent, though, so maybe I should just put a pot over there. He's also pooped on the train table- you should have seen how surprised he and Cecilia were! Hilarious, I tell you!!

This stage is just cute as can be... I am loving two kids that can handle walking from the car to the library, leaving the house for more than two hours and are happy with my mom while I CAN HAVE A LIFE! Not that my real life isn't my kids... I just can't wait for the next one.

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Hi Ladies!

This is my very first post on MDC. (So hopefully I am doing this right - haha) But a friend of mine recently turned me on to it and I am very excited to meet other mommies that have munchkins the same age as my own!

Hope to get to know all of you very soon,

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[QUOTE=co op mama;11114750]Uhhh maybe I'm the abnormal one we are co sleeping and nursing on demand. although I think we are out of sheer laziness on my part QUOTE]

Same here! Mine doesn't show anytime sign of slowing down but that's ok, doesn't bother me, just some around me, but they don't notice half the time that I'm nursing an 18 month old.

As for the sleeping it has gotting so much better, the other night we were down to getting up once at night, which i thought I would never see again!!

Oh! deltadawn, our babies have the same birthday!
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What a great time for me to join the conversation! :-) I am still nursing my 18 month old as well. Ayla and Elijah share the same birthday - pretty neat. I deal with people getting uncomfortable when they realize I am BFing her all the time. When I am feeling like SuperMom, I don't even let it get to me. Then other times, when I am feeling more vulnerable, I get insecure. Anyone else have this problem? I am pretty active in my local LLL and have some terrific support there, but the other 29-30 days of the month it's a crapshoot. Can I help it that I have awesome breastmilk? heehee
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hello everyone! Sorry I was so MIA lately! It is crazy on this board for a while for me and I hardley made it out of my modding forums!

We still BF and Co-sleep...we actually cosleep with my son as well! Yarrow nightweaned herself about three months ago but she still get up once to switch to my other side...I think when my ds gets into bed with us she wants to be next to him...

I bet I am the only one who will miss diapers? It has some to do with the fact that I am at stash nirvana (I am the MDC cloth diaper exspert) but more so that Yarrow is my last baby! Ever. Done. Finished. End of babyhood forever.

Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!


Potty training seems like the true end of babyhood to me and I am just not ready to think about it yet.

I love reading all the updates~!

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Can I add my little Ayla Dawn to the list? 11/21/06?
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Hi! I'm also new to MDC. My son Ollie will be 1 1/2 on May 6th. We are also in transition with sleeping (as usual I still hardly sleep). He sleeps for 4-5 hrs in his crib and wakes to nurse 2-3 times. How long should 18 mo. olds sleep? He sleeps sometimes only 9 hrs. with an hour long nap, doesn't seem like enough to me. I am also considering weaning, any tips? He is easily distracted some days, other days are more trouble than its worth. Ha Ha I can relate to nursing and cosleeping out of laziness! Especially when Dad isn't as helpful as he could be.
We had a rough day today, is it possible that the tantrums of terrible twos start this early? Just when I thought I might be ready for another baby..
Today we took a day trip to Sedona. It was me, my son, and five other friends/acquaintances who are all without children (but two have degrees in child development). So frustrating I could cry! My son was so contrary, pitched many fits, and actually embarrassed me. I think I was uptight because I felt like the other girls were judging my parenting and judging my child. Not because anyone actually said anything, just the way they looked at us. It can be so uncomfortable to be a mom in your early twenties and most of your friends are without kids. No one seems to understand how exhausting and difficult it actually is. I always feel the need to defend myself, and defend mothers everywhere when a friend compares babysitting or daycare work to being a sahm. I know its not their fault, who can possibly imagine the ups and downs of parenting until you actually have a child. You never know how hard it is until you look at your child's sweet face, realize how fiercely you love him, and realize that you just aren't going to do everything right all the time, no matter how much you try.
Oh what a day.. I'm sorry for being all over the place, but we're all moms here and have been there...right?
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Welcome Ollie and Ayla Dawn! Glad you found us.

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I hesitate to say this, but DD has been going down at 7pm and getting up at 6am. I traded places with DH so I'm sleeping on the other side of the bed from her so perhaps the aroma of fresh milk isn't reaching her?
This is exactly what we do. Lea goes to sleep 7:30-8, and sleeps until 6:30. If she wakes up, DH pats her back and she usually falls right to sleep again. We don't bf anymore. Totally stopped at 14 months. I went on a business trip and when I got back she was overjoyed to see me, but never asked for a boobie again.

Potty: DS (3.5 y) is still in diapers. He can sit in his own poo for hours if you let him, and doesn't care if he is wet either. Just no interest whatsoever. And 3.5 yo poo is major nasty! Lea sometimes sits on his little potty though, "Lea toilet."

Twogreencars, thanks for starting the thread. Is it holiday today over there? It is me and only 3 other people in the office today; and as you can see I am not really working that hard!
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Can I add Elijah to the list as well? 11.21.06
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You never know how hard it is until you look at your child's sweet face, realize how fiercely you love him, and realize that you just aren't going to do everything right all the time, no matter how much you try.

you said it, mama!! and many to you, we definitely all have those kinds of days. hope today is better for you and your little one!

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Dang! I've got to work on that night weaning.... but something always prevents me. We are still sleeping with Carl, although his toddler bed is right next to mine and he'll nap in that. Carl still nurses once or twice at night and I'd go through the week of 'pat-pat-pat' with him to get him out of the habit; but every time I'd like to try he manages to get sick or be getting his eye teeth or something is out of whack.

I'd love #3 but am committed to my skinny jeans this summer!

We have the little potty out, but boys are tricky! I guess I have to teach him to poke his penis down there, or he's going to get an eyeful! We have a lovely, simple wooden potty... I hope I don't end up investing in one of those Boon things with the penis shield.

Carl likes to pee down the heat vent, though, so maybe I should just put a pot over there. He's also pooped on the train table- you should have seen how surprised he and Cecilia were! Hilarious, I tell you!!

This stage is just cute as can be... I am loving two kids that can handle walking from the car to the library, leaving the house for more than two hours and are happy with my mom while I CAN HAVE A LIFE! Not that my real life isn't my kids... I just can't wait for the next one.
Ha, ha, skinny jeans! I know...I recently lost 40 lbs and only have 7 pounds to go before I'm at a "normal" weight. I haven't been at a normal weight since I was 11, and now I want to mess it all up and get pg!! I'm totally loving being in the normal size now, though.
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Hi Ladies!

This is my very first post on MDC. (So hopefully I am doing this right - haha) But a friend of mine recently turned me on to it and I am very excited to meet other mommies that have munchkins the same age as my own!

Hope to get to know all of you very soon,

Lynny
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Same here! Mine doesn't show anytime sign of slowing down but that's ok, doesn't bother me, just some around me, but they don't notice half the time that I'm nursing an 18 month old.

As for the sleeping it has gotting so much better, the other night we were down to getting up once at night, which i thought I would never see again!!

Oh! deltadawn, our babies have the same birthday!
Though we don't cosleep anymore, we still nurse on demand
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What a great time for me to join the conversation! :-) I am still nursing my 18 month old as well. Ayla and Elijah share the same birthday - pretty neat. I deal with people getting uncomfortable when they realize I am BFing her all the time. When I am feeling like SuperMom, I don't even let it get to me. Then other times, when I am feeling more vulnerable, I get insecure. Anyone else have this problem? I am pretty active in my local LLL and have some terrific support there, but the other 29-30 days of the month it's a crapshoot. Can I help it that I have awesome breastmilk? heehee
That's why I love going to LLL. Overall, though, the majority of my friends are AP, so I'm not really weird yet. I mean, some of the ladies are nursing their 3 and 4 yr olds. Granted, I met all these ladies at LLL, so if I didn't have that support system, I might feel like a total freak.
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Hi! I'm also new to MDC. My son Ollie will be 1 1/2 on May 6th. We are also in transition with sleeping (as usual I still hardly sleep). He sleeps for 4-5 hrs in his crib and wakes to nurse 2-3 times. How long should 18 mo. olds sleep? He sleeps sometimes only 9 hrs. with an hour long nap, doesn't seem like enough to me. I am also considering weaning, any tips? He is easily distracted some days, other days are more trouble than its worth. Ha Ha I can relate to nursing and cosleeping out of laziness! Especially when Dad isn't as helpful as he could be.
We had a rough day today, is it possible that the tantrums of terrible twos start this early? Just when I thought I might be ready for another baby..
Today we took a day trip to Sedona. It was me, my son, and five other friends/acquaintances who are all without children (but two have degrees in child development). So frustrating I could cry! My son was so contrary, pitched many fits, and actually embarrassed me. I think I was uptight because I felt like the other girls were judging my parenting and judging my child. Not because anyone actually said anything, just the way they looked at us. It can be so uncomfortable to be a mom in your early twenties and most of your friends are without kids. No one seems to understand how exhausting and difficult it actually is. I always feel the need to defend myself, and defend mothers everywhere when a friend compares babysitting or daycare work to being a sahm. I know its not their fault, who can possibly imagine the ups and downs of parenting until you actually have a child. You never know how hard it is until you look at your child's sweet face, realize how fiercely you love him, and realize that you just aren't going to do everything right all the time, no matter how much you try.
Oh what a day.. I'm sorry for being all over the place, but we're all moms here and have been there...right?
I totally understand where you're coming from. Atticus' behavior is sometimes so out there, and I get embarrassed, especially around people who don't have children. When we go their houses, I hate always having to take things out of his hands. I think that people will never understand what it's like to have a spirited toddler til they actually have one of their own.

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Hi ladies,

Another BFing on demand and cosleeping family here. Eleanor goes down btw 9-10pm, sleeps for either 2 or 4-5 hrs depending on who knows what, then nurses about two times after that, including when we wake up. We're okay w/that. I pat her back when she stirs and starts to wake. Sometimes that works, mostly it doesn't and she wants to nurse. She's getting the last eyetooth right now.

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what the heck is an eyetooth?

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I think we have all teeth now. Still BF and cosleep. Wake up 2-3 times a night usually. Instead of crying, he says BOOBY BOOBY BOOBY when he wakes up, until he gets one.

Last week he slept all through one night w/o nursing, for the first time EVER. I'm thinking about night weaning too, but don't know if I can handle the crying.
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Greetings! Can't believe we are hitting 18 months!

I've got the potty down from the loft today and put it in the bathroom so she can get used to it. Might even see if she'll sit on it at bathtime. We'll see!
We've had a little potty in our bath for about a month. DD loves to sit on it and say pee-pee or poo-poo but she has yet to actually do those things in there We let her have some diaper free time around the times we think she might go. Last weekend, she said pee-pee and went to go to her potty. I followed her into the bathroom and she was standing next to the potty in a puddle of pee. She's got the right idea so we're just taking it slow.

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So, how have nights been going for everyone lately? Atticus goes down between 7-8, is usually up for a nursing around 12 and then again around 3. He's up for the day between 7-8. How's everyone else doing? The two times a night are tolerable, but not really ideal, kwim?

I hesitate to say this, but DD has been going down at 7pm and getting up at 6am. I traded places with DH so I'm sleeping on the other side of the bed from her so perhaps the aroma of fresh milk isn't reaching her?
We've been trying to get DD to go to bed earlier but it is not working. She's going down around 10-10:30, wakes up at 6, and naps sporadically during the day - usually 1/2-1 hour at daycare and sleeps in the carseat on our 35 minute ride home. 2greencars - you are LUCKY!! The main reason we want DD down earlier is that DP and I never have any alone adult time, KWIM? We race to get out of the house in the morning, and after work its dinner, play, get ready for tomorrow, etc.

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Am I the only one who doesn't co-sleep or still bf?
Don't feel bad about this. It's seems everyone is doing whatever works for them. We still cosleep but the BF ended last night Over the last month, I've been dropping a few feedings and today is the date I set to end it for good. We would like to continue cosleeping but with no-more BF, it might be a hard call. Wish us luck - this will be very hard on all of us but in the end it is going to be for the better.

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Carl likes to pee down the heat vent, though, so maybe I should just put a pot over there. He's also pooped on the train table- you should have seen how surprised he and Cecilia were! Hilarious, I tell you!!
I spit my coffee out for that one! too funny!!!

deltadawn- welcome! I saw your post in tribal areas. I am in south central idaho how is eastern ID treating you so far?

flgmama - welcome! i am not a young mom but most of my friends do not have children so they can't relate. that's why MDC rocks! we're always here to talk poo or anything else you fancy

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what the heck is an eyetooth?
i believe its the pointy tooth that's 2 away from your front tooth. some people refer to it as your canine


So I went to drop DD off at daycare today and the lady offered to change her policy for us if we'd stay. The main reason we were leaving is that we couldn't afford to or justify paying for when DD wasn't there. When we started, we gave her hours that we thought DD would be there and that's what we're charged for. Since my job is so flexible, some days I wouldn't take her or I'd pick her up early, etc. The daycare we are planning to take her has a 'pay for when you're here only' policy, but now that current daycare is offering to do that is something DP and i will have to discuss. I am going to haggle price when I pick her up today. The other daycare is also $2/hour cheaper, so if she can meet us in the middle we will probably stay.

I am so restless at the office today. It's nice out and I don't feel like being here. I have gotten ZERO done since I got here <<<shhhhh>>> I might bounce out early today and take DD to the park while waiting to pick up DP.

Anyone have exciting plans for the weekend??? I plan on 'stimulating' the economy I know I should save it or invest it but I don't get alot of 'fun me' money and if I can help the economy...I will do it I'm going to get some summer shoes and a nice fencing for my garden. I might even go get a massage....ahhhhh

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Wow, so many new mamas and toddlers!! Welcome!

Update on Ashebys hands: severe eczema on feet, arms and hands, treated with oral steroids and I hope I can keep it under control naturally before it gets THAT bad again. Ugh, it was awful. He also had double ear infections at the same time! Poor guy.

Sleeping: down at 8pm, dreamfeed at 11pm, up at 8am. Nap from 12:30-2:30 ish.

Teeth: 16

New words: Mimi, poopoo

Nursing: on demand during the day, some days a lot, some days a little

Last week when MDC went down I was in process of uploading pics for our picture share, are we still going to do that?

Amee + James (1998) =
Amethyst (May 2002)
Asheby "Bear" (November 2006)
Abbott (January 2011)
Atlas (March 2013)
and another A due July 2015!!!!
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MPS - I'm glad you found a way to comfort the flare-ups. Did you ever find out why/what was triggering this?


2green - I just realized DD is not on the list. Can you add Aislyn to the list at 11/4?

Hey other 11/4 mamas - out LO's will be turning 2 on election day this year. I will take DD to vote with me

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Hey other 11/4 mamas - out LO's will be turning 2 on election day this year. I will take DD to vote with me

That's crazy, last presidential election landed on my birthday (the out come was not a very good bday present ) and 4 years later my LO's bday lands on election day!!!

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