My dd is 21 months old, and nursing is no longer mutually beneficial for us. I'm proud that we made it as long as we did, and overcame the challenge of MRSA-mastitis and surgery at 5 weeks old, but I'm ready to be done. I'd ideally like her to be completely weaned a month from now before we go on vacation, but I'm willing to take it slower if necessary.
I found a tea called No More Milk Tea that has sage in it, I was wondering if anyone has used this to help wean, and how long it took for your milk to dry up? What else should I be doing to help her wean?
Thanks for any advice you have!
I've been reading more, and I think we're just gonna have to be sleepless for a few nights and do Jay Gordon's method. Then we'll work on finding some way to distract during the day. (Oh, how I dread that! She is such a focused and demanding baby when she wants her mama milk! LOL)
Thanks for reading. And if you have any advice on how to wean an almost 22-month-old, I'd love to hear it.
Never tried the tea but it sounds like a good idea.
I would gradually decrease nursing sessions and the amount of time for each nursing session. Depending on how much she is nursing now you could do it in 3 weeks. Vacation may bring stress and the desire to nurse again. Good luck.
However, milk or no milk the babe is going to want her boobie! So drying up the milk might not have the effect you're looking for.
I'm really not sure that drying up the milk is the way I want to go, it's not as gentle as I'd like to be, but at the same time I am reaching the end of my rope with the twiddling, biting, constant nursing and sleepless nights!
I've been praying for guidance and wisdom to do the right thing for both her and me, and I am leaning away from using the tea for now. I think I'll just plan lots of activities to keep us all really busy and see if that will be enough distraction for her.
I appreciate the input! Thanks a bunch!
I bought the same tea. Realistically I figured it is made to lessen the supply of milk when you stop nursing so you don't engorge. In my fantasies I wonder if it could urge child to self wean. If this was the case, i don't see why this would not be gentle...? At almost two, she can eat and drink other things. she would still get the comfort, but not as much milk so maybe she'd get tired of it faster... remember it less often and ask for a snack when she's actually hungry. Good luck and don't feel too guilty. I weaned my first son at 2 and was torn, until I realized that our affection just found new ways to manifest, ways that I liked more actually. and yet I'm no pro, and I'm here again, feeling like I have no idea how to wean my second!
I've been drinking the tea for little past 24 hours now, and going to the bathroom so much... (I'm not drinking it any more than I usually drink tea) I wonder if it's just trying to dehydrate me, and that way cut of milk. If that is the case, I know the breast milk will be the last thing to dehydrate...