X-posted in Trying to Conceive:
Hi all, I'm 44 yrs old, had my 1st babe Dec 08 (18 months now), am still breastfeeding her, and AF came back about 6 months ago. Even though AF started slight and light, it's been just as regular as before that pregnancy.
I also had 2 miscarriages before DD was born - one that just happened with no warning, the other we didn't discover until a doc's visit and ultrasound showed the fetus hadn't made it. After that 2nd discovery, I waited several weeks for it to miscarry and it never did, had to have a D&C (so basically fetus didn't come out on its own as long as 4 weeks after it demised cuz by time doc saw it, 2 weeks had passed).
Soooo... we're TTC again, and AF was due last Thurs. Again, I'm super regular so Sat is the latest it should have come. No AF. Tested with home Preg Test Sat and again this morning, negative.
Called my doc's, they said you have to wait 2 weeks to be sure one way or another what's going on, so they don't want to see me until I'm 14 days past my expected 1st AF date and want me to test at home then and then call.
But because I've been so regular, and always tested positive a couple days after missed AF, I'm concerned. Would love to just believe I'm preggers and it hasn't shown up yet, but I'm worried that if it's negative it means either a) not pregnant, wasn't pregnant, but something's wrong cuz why no AF? or b) I was pregnant or am pregnant but not enough preg hormones to register which doesn't bode well? (I'm not sure that's true, just asking).
SO that's a REALLY long way of asking: for someone who's super regular, is 2 days (really 4 days) passed missed AF date but negative test, does that sound problematic? Or do really regular people breastfeeding sometimes get weird responses....?
Any ideas what might be going on?