Originally Posted by alegna
Okay- I might consider it child led IF there were:
no other milk
no spoon feeding.
Any of those can contribute to early weaning (as can change or addition to mom's medications or new foods in her diet or pregnancy)
didn't do ANY those above. No spoonfeeding except i HELPED HIM use the spoon to feed yogurt. everything else is finger foods. Was actually concerned he wasn't self feeding more than ahandful perday. by the way he is a chunky one! This week he has been ravenous, however, eating TONS of good foods. Not pregnant
just took a test two days ago...no medications...no change in diet. i eat very healthy as to be a role model for DS.
Marie... you don't irritate me! you and angela are the cheerleaders of MDC for extended breastfeeding and that's great. i appreciate your dedication and lactivisim.
But i do think you need to realize that there are babes that don't enjoy nursing. You don't realize how sad i get going to the airport or walking to the park and seeing moms happily breastfeeding. OH I'M HAPPY they are nursing, but sad that since birth its been a struggle to get my little guy to nurse. It had to be in one room, dark, white noise, same pillow or it wasn't going to happen. Never. at any age. I hope, oh i HOPE My next one is just in love with my boobs and cuddles and snuggles and we have that relationship i hear about but have never experienced. i am proud of us for doing it this long as we had painful thrush for 5 months.
The sweet thing is now he is a cuddler. JUST started this week. He has replaced nursy time with reading books and snuggling before bed. i hear his little breath upon my neck as he wraps his legs around me and cuddles, and i know that we have done what is best for us.
I just want you two and others to see that it IS possible that a babe doesn't like nursing. its so sad, but its true. He took 13 ounces EBM from his sippy yesterday and as of saturday it will be one week since he sucked off me. We have weaned. I just pumped 6 ounces in less than 5 minutes (seriously) however, and i just pump twice a day and get 15 ounces for him, so we will probably keep that up since its so easy.
thanks for listening and considering that maybe, just maybe, there are unique situations like mine where he DID self wean at a mere 12 months.