I am curious to see how old people were when they purchased their first home. I got pregnant at 18 and H and I got married when I was 19 (and he was 21). For the past 6+ years we have lived with my mom (we pay her $500 rent) while we are saving to buy our own place but it still seems so far off. H just turned 28 and I'm about to turn 26. We now have 2 kids (6 and 1 yrs old). I have a B.A. but am currently staying home with DS.
I get along fine with my mom but sometimes I get depressed thinking that we are still living with her. I dream about decorating my own house and the kids having their own room and a yard to play in. My moms yard is all cement and not that inviting. Mostly, I feel like I am behind everybody else and that at this age we should have our own place but maybe I just feel that way because we began having kids and got married so young.
I was 27, I think. And I was the first in my group of peers by several years. We live in a high cost of living area, so many never own. But I'd say the median age around here is about 35 years old, give or take. I'd say the right age is whatever works for your family's budget and lifestyle!
I was 20 and dh was 27 and we had been married for about 6 months. I too was the first of my peers for several years :)
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I was a month past my 20th birthday when I signed and got the keys to our first house. However, we live in a low COL area with low taxes and the like so our monthly payment which includes mortgage, taxes, and insurance isn't much more than what we were paying for our apartment. We also had the benefit of a first time homebuyers credit and we were able to buy with a VA loan which doesn't require the first down payment that makes it harder for people to buy sooner. The seller was also conveniently our realtor (she and her husband were flipping a house that was exactly what we wanted) so it was easy to negotiate seller paying all closing costs so in the end we only paid for the inspector which was also conveniently cheap.
Basically, we were really freaking lucky haha. We couldn't have bought if we didn't have all those pieces in place for us.
first house at 25, second at 29
eta the reason it took so long is because from 18-24 I lived near seattle and home ownership when you make 30-50 K a year is pretty tough
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28. Bought at the bottom of the market and ended up selling at the top seven yrs. later. Best financial move to date: Allowed us to move out of a high COL area to a low COL one and buy w/ cash.
Don't rush it.....you'll get there and it will be so worth it!
Single mom at 26... probalby not the best decision but it worked for DS and I for almost 5 years. I was lucky to have family bail me out. For the past 5 years or so I've been renting and now I have a roommate. Im working toward moving again and hopefully reloacting to a diff part of the country.
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DH and I were 27, but by the time we bought we were married, had both worked full time in a well-paying industry for a while, and had been aggressively saving for several years for our downpayment. We also moved to a (cheaper) suburb to buy as we would never have been able to afford buying a home in the area where we were renting.
we have yet to buy, still saving money and i am super picky. we are looking a forever home, the idea of a starter home is really strange to me. we do have a home in mexico though.
eta we are 24/26
Apparently doing it rong and ruining it for everyone, but I don't give a crap anymore.
I was 27 and DW was 25 when we bought our first house (and the one we still live in today). Wow - that seems so young, even though it was just over 5 years ago. We bought at a time with really low interest rates, and when house prices were somewhat high, but then just climbed higher. Turns out our house, despite all of the issues we've had with it and then all of the money we've had to put into it because of those issues, has been a stellar investment.
DW and I are moms to two teens (DD 17 and DS 15) adopted through CAS in 2007 and a toddler (DD 2) born at home in March 2011.
We were very young compared to those who've posted.
I was 21, dh was 22. We had no kids.
We have 3 kids now & are 34, 36 & have been looking for our 2nd home for the last year or so. Our kids are older(8, 9 & 12) so keeping it cleaner to sell is easier than if they were babies. We're looking to build right now as we cant' really find what we're looking for.
We were both 23. DH has just finished college and we decided it would be a great investment to buy. We lived in the house for 5 years and sold it for double what we bought it for to begin with (after lots of blood, sweat, and tears). We were 28 when we bought our current home.
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I'm on my fourth real house with the dh. We have two big kids now and our next house will be the more compact "empty nest" type house. A place for a grown kid to have a soft landing but not enough room to get too comfy, YKWIM?
DP & I were both 25. We had been married going on 4 years, had a 2 year old and were 8 months pg.
Most of the people around here seem to not buy until they are married or in a fairly long term relationship. Late 20s seems fairly common, but some people are much older with no plans to buy.
We bought our first house when I was 24, and DH was 25 after our first DD was born. We do live in a low COL area but what helped us tremendously was getting into a first time homebuyer program. I can't remember exact numbers but it seemed like total closing costs were around 6k. So if you can, research different programs and options, you may not need as much as you think you need to get into a home of your own.
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I had my first baby @ 36. Bought my first home @ 38 (solo), sold it 3 yrs later (made $$) and bought my 2nd home (solo) @ 43. I did a lot of traveling&school in my 20's and started working in a career type job in my late 20's/30's. Then had kids, bought home, etc.
Married at 25. First baby at 28. House at 30.
And dh is 5 years older than I am.
And we were among the first of our peers to be married. I seem to know a lot of people who wait till they are nearly 40 before having children.
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We were 26 and 27 when we bought our first home. It was a small townhouse, so just a starter home. It was actually an impulse purchase. We went to watch a new movie, but arrived an hour early. Saw some banners for new homes nearby and said "Why don't we go see some show homes?" Saw a couple units and decided right then. Then we watched our movie, and signed the papers next day. :D I probably wouldn't recommend that method to other people, but we were young and laid back then.
We sold it and bought a house in the suburb 3 years later, already had one baby then. We were relatively early among our peers. Most don't buy homes until their mid-30s. Homes here are very expensive (Greater Vancouver) so people need more time to save up.
According to this article "First-time buyers for the two years of the study had an average age of 34, compared to 46 for those trading up." You guys have plenty of time to catch up. http://www.worldpropertychannel.com/us-markets/residential-real-estate-1/real-estate-news-first-time-home-buyers-national-association-of-home-builders-nahb-new-home-construction-home-buyer-tax-credit-3219.php
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