shirt - $15-$45 (I mostly shop sales)
pants - $50 (more for "good" pants)
shoes - $100 (I walk a lot and like comfortable shoes)
haircut - $75
massage - don't spend money on this
nails - $30 for a pedi? Have only done this once.
one hour class - $10 at the art studio
toy - We usually buy a small number of good quality toys, and only on birthdays or Christmas
night out - $150-$200 for dinner, movie, popcorn, parking, babysitter. This happens very rarely. I will occasionally spend $40 when going out alone with friends
Price range depends on other factors. For example: if I'm working (with lots of overtime) - $30 for a shirt is ok if it's a non-iron spiffy dress shirt from a good clothing label. Some of them cost $40 - $50 if the cut was truly amazing and the shirt was very specific (like tuxedo cut for fancy suits.) If I'm between jobs - $15 for a dress shirt is ok, I have less money coming in, but more time to look for sales / coupons / free shipping, etc.
Pants - it was $10-$20. I have a very hard-to-shop-for figure, so I would have try on dozens, regardless of price, usually there is a match from the sales rack. Lately, I found a couple of absolutely perfect pants, so I bought those in every color available, for $40. It saved me time on alterations.
Shoes - $15 - $30 for regular shoes, $60 - $70 for special dance shoes. $1 - $2 for flip-flops, I'm not buying the Gisele Ipanema ones for $24.
Haircut -$30 - $35
Nails - only did it once, when I was 16 I think. Not my thing, so I don't spend on that.
Pedicure - never done, because for me it seems like a waste of money and I don't like the hygiene aspect
A monthly night out - about $25 - $35 (a dinner.) $20 for some kind of a movie / small concert thing.
I have to add a disclaimer that I usually shop sales. So $15 shoes usually begin their life as $40 shoes.
A shirt $5-10
Pants $5-15, maybe 20 if they are high quality
Shoes $10-15, however, I admit to having owned a pair of Jordans that SO bought me for like $100 and they are VERY comfortable. So I can understand spending more on good shoes.
A haircut ummmmmm, been so long I'm not sure what's the going rate for a female to get her hair done, probably in the $60 range but that can really, really vary depending on what you're getting done. A kid/guy haircut runs about $10 but we do our own.
A massage I think a massage is typically a dollar a minute? Not sure. If I had it like that, I'd be willing to pay $30 for a good half hour massage.
Nails or pedicure plain manicure $7 plus tip, acrylics start around $15 and can go up to $35 if you get super fancy. (I've only done this once in my life, but I see the signs in the nail shops everywhere)
A 1-hour class for your kid (music/dance/art/yoga/karate/etc.) Ds' soccer, if he keeps his uniform, is $45 for the season. Dance for dd was $30 a month which is out of our budget, but I don't find that unreasonable by any means.
A toy Depends. If I had the money I'd be willing to spend good money ($50 or more) on a high quality, open ended toy. ds loves legos and if I could afford to buy those new I'd happily do so even at $30 a box. However I'd not be willing to pay $30 or 40 for a plastic character type toy. We generally shop thrift stores and I find amazing things for under $10 in most cases.
A monthly night out with friends or your spouse $30 for a sitter, $40-50 for a nice meal out. However we have never actually done this, so this is all conjecture. lol.
Feel free to add other items... Answer with the assumption that you'd spend money on those things, even though I know some people, myself included, don't actually spend on some of those!
Yes, I spend more on shoes, but I wear them until they completely fall apart. I don't have more than 4-5 pairs at a time either, counting sandals and winter boots. My current running shoes need to be replaced in the next couple of months because I've completely worn away the sole and they have no traction anymore (and it's about to get icy), but I'm currently on the look out for a good sale on the ones I like.
A shirt (everyday clothes, nothing special): I rarely spend more than $10 on a shirt, but that's because I'm cheap. I find shirts for $2-8 alllll the time on sales racks.
Pants: $20-40, if they were a good fit.
Shoes: $5 for your average thrift store ballet flats, $50-100 on nice, occasional buys (running shoes, boots)
A haircut: $20. But I don't color or anything and go to discount places.
A massage: I recently got several for $18 on a groupon type deal, so I'm always looking for those kind of buys.
Nails or pedicure: $35 for both is pretty standard at (cheaper) shops in our area
A 1-hour class for your kid (music/dance/art/yoga/karate/etc.): $5, although I probably wouldn't go to one very often.
A toy: $5, since most of our toys come from the thrift store. More if it is something nice, like a once-a-year train set/water table/etc.
A monthly night out with friends or your spouse: $30 when we go to the movies and get cheap (think burgers and fries) dinner. We're pretty easy to please. :)
I'm gonna play :)
Shirt - just had to replace some. I shop Marshall's/TJMaxx. I found that I was not willing to pay more that $7.99-$9.99 for a long sleeve tee (had some detailing, i.e. nice neckline, interesting sleeve seams. Detail mean a lot to me) or $16.99 for a dressier knit type blouse. I put one back that was a $24.99 event though it was a super cute. I might be able to justify $19.99, but I'd feel guilty.
Pants - I need to try on a bajillion pairs of pants to find ones that I'll wear and feel good about. I've found jeans for $12.99 before, but I recently bought "designer" jeans at a discount store - paid $59 for a pair that retails at $125+ and I have to say, I totally notice a difference in how they are cut. I wear them ALL the time, and feel GREAT in them, so no guilt whatsoever about them. WHen I've shopped for cords/khakis I'm usually in the $25 range, but it's been so long since I've shopped for them I have no idea. I'd be willing to pay up to $60 for a great fitting pair of cords, but that's only after years of wearing ill fitting pants. (and we are on a pretty strict budget, but i wear things until they fall apart, so by the time it's time to replace certain items, I'm ok with spending the money). Likely, I'd only have a couple pairs though, not a shelf full.
Shoes - just spent $60 on winter boots and almost threw up at the cash register. But we've had a couple of cold days and I LOVE LOVE LOVE them. They are warm and cute, and I've gone without for over 10 years, so I'm about due to have warm, dry feet! My mom bought me Uggs for an early Christmas gift and I feel nauseous about it - and it wasn't even my money. :( For everyday shoes, again, discount/sale shopper. So $12.99-$19.99. Bought a pair of Danskos for work several years ago and LOVED them - wore them until they had hole in the sole: everyday for FOUR years! but just can't justify that at this point. Esp. since I bought myself the nice jeans and winter boots recently.
Haircut - used to pay $60 + tip back in the day. Paid $85 once and it was the best haircut of my life. But I just don't spend that kind of money on myself. I don't get my hair cut but couple times a year, and $25 is painful these days (although dh gets his hair cut every 6 weeks or so and pays $16-$20 a pop)
Massage - would never pay for this, although I love them. I fall asleep so I end up not experiencing very much of it.LOL I'd much rather put the money toward a spa service (facial, etc) but don't ever do that either. I know what the going rates are, I just would never spend the money.
Nails or pedi - only as a once in a very long while treat. Like maybe once every couple of years. Like $10 for mani, $25 for a pedi? Waxing here is $7 for eyebrows. I'd go more regularly if I would remember to take the time. That seems reasonable to me.
Kids Class - I think the going rate around here is $10-$12 dollars. Our kids are in dance and swim team, but grandparents gift it. We couldn't afford it otherwise. I'm taking an adult dance class that is $65/mo for 12 hours. (classes are 90 minutes). Can't really afford it, but it's my mental health therapy so I've decided to make myself a priority for the first time since having kids (10 years! First time I've done something like this! )
Toy - don't buy toys except for Christmas and Birthdays. I guess it depends on what it is. We tend towards board games and crafty/science types of things. $25 would probably be my upper limit.
Nights Out - Yeah, never do that. Don't even know how to price it...
What about Family Fun stuff that you'd have to pay for? (I know there are a lot of free things you can do...)
A shirt (everyday clothes, nothing special): $10-$30. I tend to wear a lot of tank tops and cardigans, so definitely on the lower end of the spectrum.
Shoes: $25-$60 (again, I go cheap here because I hate shoes. $25 rope sandals ftw!)
A haircut: If I actually wanted my hair cut, I'd probably be willing to pay $75 from a highly recommended stylist who understands curly hair. As a pretty dedicated long haired person (I just hit classic length!) $0
A massage: $65 for an hour
Nails or pedicure: no idea, never do this
A 1-hour class for your kid (music/dance/art/yoga/karate/etc.): $15/hour
A toy: $10-$30
A monthly night out with friends or your spouse: friends: $40 tops. Spouse: $100
Mine would be in Canadian dollar. :)
A shirt (everyday clothes, nothing special)
up to $30, usually $10 - 20
up to $50, but we only wear jeans, no dress pants.
$20 - 35 for kids, $50 - 100 for adults
$0, I cut the whole family's hair, including my own
I don't remember, when I used to get those they were covered by insurance
Nails or pedicure
Never had one.
A 1-hour class for your kid (music/dance/art/yoga/karate/etc.)
No idea. :) Their speech therapy cost $110 an hour, though.
Anywhere from $1 to $50. If things like video games consoles and games don't count.
A monthly night out with friends or your spouse
I haven't had that for a long time. We only get a "date" about once a year and I have no IRL friends who would go out with me.
Those are prices for new stuff. For used stuff, I will spend:
up to $25 for a good coat
up to $5 for a piece of kid's top, usually name brand (thrift stores are not exactly cheap here)
up to $10 for adult clothes
up to $7 for kid's pants
A shirt (everyday clothes, nothing special): $10-$30. - I just bought a nice shirt at Macy's for 10 dollars (on sale)
Pants: 50-100 - I have a hard time finding pants that fit well. But I do wear them for along time, once I find them. And I do try at old navy and h&m first, but no go usually
A haircut: 95 includes colouring; add in a tip (twice a year)
A massage: A guess 50-75 - I don't do this - BUT I did pay 75 for acupuncture
Nails or pedicure: 15 (A guess)
A 1-hour class for your kid (music/dance/art/yoga/karate/etc.): 13 (for adult); $2 - $20 for the kid (2 for swim lessons - anything in between - $20 for music lessons)
A toy: there are too many categories! 10 - for a used video game; 5-15 for a toddler type toy; I do think that "organic" type toys are over priced.
A monthly night out with friends or your spouse: for one: $50.; for two: $100 plus babysitter
Fascinating - I think most people have pretty similar ideas of "reasonable cost" - I'm surprised to see that estimates are really pretty similar, though of course whether or not we're willing to spend on it varies person by person. =)
Regular shirt: I'll say $20, but honestly I am a thrift store shopper, so usually $2.50. xD
Pants: $50 for a pair of pants I like (...such a rare thing!) but again, usually at thrift stores, so $5.
Shoes: Generally, my most expensive shoes are running shoes at $50-60 for a pair. For casual shoes, or occasional-use-dress shoes, I generally stick to $20-30. However, I recently discovered Sketchers Shape Ups, and if I ever had to work another job standing on my feet for long periods of time, I would spend the full $120 retail for these shoes. They were worth EVERY penny.
Haircut: $60 plus tip for a cut and color (every 3 months or so).
Massage: $0... I trade with a therapist when I want bodywork. However if I were paying, $60 for an hour, plus tip.
Nails/Pedicure: Including the tip, $20 for a mani, $45 for a pedi.
1-hour kid class: Erm.... $5-10 for a one-hour class?
Toy: I seriously have no idea... $20? But I don't like having a lot of random, miscellaneous crap lying around. =/
Monthly night out with friends/spouse: $50 for a night out with friends (although generally I'd spend much less); $100 or more for a night out with my honey (we're paying for 2 of us, after all!)
I think my price points are based on an insider's appreciation of the service industry - I believe skilled labor deserves fair pay, and I am a pretty generous tipper. I certainly could spend less on these things, I am comfortable with my expenditures. Massages I get for free, since I was previously an LMT and can leverage that knowledge for bodywork that only costs me an exchange of time. My hair is done by a friend, and while she could/would cut me a deal if I asked (or needed it), I'm happy to support her growing business. Nails I get done irregularly, but find the indulgence worthwhile when I feel like I need a little pampering. =)
Generally I am a quality-over-quantity kind of girl, and I'm willing to pay for the difference. I do most of my clothes shopping at thrift stores, where I am selective about brands and pick up quality clothing at a very low price. Shoes, I will spend what needs to be spent to get the support and durability I need for "working" shoes (like my running shoes, or like the Shape Ups when I was working standing retail over the summer), but I tend to buy cheaply for shoes I will wear infrequently (like heels) or don't require much function out of (like flip flops and casual shoes). However, I buy things like this very, very sparingly... I have probably spent $200 on clothes/shoes in 2011, and $120 of that was a pair of Shape Ups, and I have bought more clothes than normal due to needing maternity clothes! xD If I can't find what I need at thrift stores, I head to discount stores (like TJMaxx or the Zappos outlet, which I am fortunate enough to live near) and after that, to the clearance rack at retail stores. But generally speaking, I only buy what I need, and I plan ahead, watch for good deals, buy secondhand when reasonable, and buy quality brands to ensure longevity, and overall spend very little money in this area.
But I do love my "experiences" and am happy to spend money there when I want or need it. =)
hey crunchy what a great question.
as i try and think about it i look back and i realize my 'reasonable' depends on my earning ability. or rather what i would spend. i have been super rich and now super poor and i am not sure how i would do if i went back to having enough money to spend as i wish.
now that i look back, i find i don't really have a reasonable price. i will pay for quality. the ability to pay is a whole other thing. but i would definitely pay a hundred bucks for a handmade, hand embroidered blouse. or even a hundred bucks for a good pair of pants that fit well. it depends on the quality of the item.
for instance one place where i don't crimp is shoes. you pay for what you get. i would willingly pay upto $300 for a good pair of shoes (i did and those shoes lasted me a good 15 years of everyday rough wear). however it is v. v. hard for me to find a great pair of shoes that fit well without giving me calf pain. so...
as i think more i find i don't really have an idea what reasonable is for me. i would choose quality over quantity.
as i am thinking of this i realize my reasonable also depends on how that thing is worth to me. for instance i paid almost 200 bucks for private swim lessons for dd. for total of one and a half hours of the teachers time. was that reasonable? yes it was. because that teacher was awesome and dd went from dog paddle to swim laps and not be afraid to dive into the pool.
however having said all that i would say that a regular shirt should not cost more than ten bucks. a regular simple top. i hate all the gimmicks of sales, half off etc. i don't want to do any of that. i don't want to look for the best deal. i don't want to have to go to different shops just coz they have different prices. why overprice and then bring things down (however please note i absolutely abhor clothes shopping). though that is my thought with everything.
why gimmicks. i do not like chasing sales for anything.
today my night outs are almost free. a lot of my night outs are also by myself as i really enjoy that. so if i were to go for a movie and dinner i could easily spend 50 bucks just on myself (i love getting the works at the movie theater).
also i am not sure i know enough about the thing to understand the worth to define what is reasonable. for instance i treasure hand made stuff. my reasonable for hand made stuff is v. different than say factory made stuff.
hmmm.... i still don't know what to think of this. i need to spend more time on this.
A shirt (everyday clothes, nothing special) --> $5-10
Pants --> $20 - $25
Shoes --> I don't buy shoes very often, but I probably paid about $20 for most pairs. I just bought a pair of Keen's for $80 though, and they're super comfy.
A haircut --> $13 at the local Aveda school
A massage --> Free, from my SO. :)
Nails or pedicure --> Never had one.
A 1-hour class for your kid (music/dance/art/yoga/karate/etc.) ---> I don't have a child, but local yoga and dance classes for adults are about $10 each
A monthly night out with friends or your spouse --> $30 - $40
I never buy things from malls unless there's a super sale or I'm desperate for a certain item of clothing that I can't find used.
This is a fun game!
A shirt (everyday clothes, nothing special): 2-4 dollars (we only buy clothes second hand)
Pants: 3-6 dollars (up to 8 for nice/dressy work pants, again only second hand)
Shoes: $60 (these we buy new; for adults). For kids $30 because they grow out before they wear out.
A haircut: $40.
A massage: $100 for about an hour.
Nails or pedicure: Mani/pedi in my area $50
A 1-hour class for your kid (music/dance/art/yoga/karate/etc.): $10-20
A toy: <5$. Again, almost never new.
A monthly night out with friends or your spouse: This has changed since going on budget -- we used to spend $100 going to a really nice new restaurant. Now, we have just as much fun for $30.
You're my hero, Crunchy Mama!
crunchy i know u started a fun thread... but it certainly generates food for thought doesnt it?
btw OT my midback length hair is now short and in steps cut by my 9 year old with me helping a little bit. she did a really great job :) i cut her almost to her butt hair to her earlobe length in one shot. so yeah we are an adventerous family where hair is concerned.
it is really hard isnt it to come up with a philosophy that you feel all right about. it takes a long time to come to where you feel you are ok.
so here are some of the things i do. lets take clothes for example. i consume v. v. v. little. instead of 7 shirts and 2 pants, i have 15 shirts and 10 pants. i have variety and dont look like i wear the same clothes all the time AND my clothes last me longer than if i was rotating very often (though whether you have 3 shirts or 5 shirts rotation, the time taken is the same - personally i just prefer lots of variety). 99% of my clothing is from thrift stores or hand me downs. however whenever i have a few $$$s i buy something i like to support someone. since i particularly like hand made stuff i might spend some money on a hand made blouse. that money i collect over time from somewhere i scrimped. for instance instead of say choosing to add another ingredient to my soup i save the money. instead of buying a drink i am dying for i drink water. now that similar blouse might be ten times cheaper from a chain store, but that's not the point. i get it either directly from the person or from a store i know who takes 20% of every dollar and returns it in the many communities that it gets its products from. if i ever get a cup of coffee i go to local small ones. i wear more skirts than pants coz i find it easier finding 'fair' skirts than pants.
we go for childrens plays because the cost of the ticket is 5 bucks each as opposed to 20 to 30 bucks. but once in a blue moon we do go for the 20 bucks ones. when i go for movies i go to the local theater - not the chain.
in other words my world is - robbing peter to pay paul.
Awesome! I cut our hair also, and you do get better w/ practice :D
As for other things, we're semi minimalists, so we rotate our clothes and donate them or repurpose then for blankets, decorations or to fit the babe, who actually has the most clothes. Anyway! So when we buy things, it's what we want, we never settle.
Tee shirt: 10-15$
jeans: 30$ (sale)
hair: free :D
massage: free (we massage each other, practice)
Nails: free (I do everyone's nails)
Kids class: $20 (that's what we pay for 2 hrs)
Toy: 10-25$ (wooden/ natural)
book: 5-10$ (amazon)
night out: $$$ (doesn't matter, usually $10/ person)
groceries: " "
A shirt (everyday clothes, nothing special)- $0- $20
Pants- $0- $30
A haircut- I don't pay to get my hair cut or dd's hair cut. Dh pays $10 and feels that is reasonable.
A massage- no idea as I've never done this
Nails or pedicure- no idea as I've never done this
A 1-hour class for your kid (music/dance/art/yoga/karate/etc.)- no idea as I've never done this
A toy- $0-$50
A monthly night out with friends or your spouse- $0- $30 We don't go out or just do low cost things.
I do try to get a good price on stuff but also do not spend on non-essentials often so sometimes will spend a bit more if it looks like a better choice.
I really think that all these things depend on many, many factors so it's difficult to put a price on things. Shoes, for example, I might get a cute pair of dress shoes for $5 on clearance then spend $100 on another pair a few months later.
A shirt (everyday clothes, nothing special) - $20, maybe $10 for something inexpensive on sale or $40 for a nice one
Pants - $50 per pair
Shoes - $75 for a decent, comfortable, everyday type pair that will last a couple years
A haircut - I pay $40-45, including the tip, but I only have my hair cut once every year or two
A massage - I consider a massage a huge luxury and something I only do when I have a physical need or I'm given a certificate for one as a gift; I would say $1 per minute plus a 10-20% tip if they do a good job
Nails or pedicure - I've only ever had my nails done a couple times and it was when I was in high school and early on in college but if I had to say what's a fair price I might say $20 but that could be way off
A 1-hour class for your kid (music/dance/art/yoga/karate/etc.) - totally depends on what it is, there's no reasonable amount that applies to all these; our kids have done soccer and it worked out to about $2/hour and they've done suzuki violin that worked out to $40-something per hour plus the cost of the violin
A toy - again, depends on the toy, we have some great made-by-me felt play food that cost pennies and we have dolls that cost $150 each, they're both played with plenty; I would say that it's reasonable to pay $15 for a made in china plastic toy from target but it's also reasonable to pay $40 for an average natural made in usa toy
A monthly night out with friends or your spouse - this is a rare treat because of the cost of babysitting but maybe $10-20 for an inexpensive outing with friends while DH is home with the kids all the way up to $150 for a nice dinner out with DH, including babysitting (we are not willing to scrimp on babysitting, a good babysitter is worth a minimum of $15/hour when we're out and we usually pay more like $20)
thanks to my parents and my marriage breaking down i have been able to get out of that. i saw what it did - how it can change things. in a way i am grateful to my parents coz they taught me the magic of childhood which i now share with dd. my dad made good money but we lived frugally - too frugally sometimes. we spent sometimes but we gave up family fun time (saving pennies) to build the savings account. my parents got so used to saving that when time came to spend in their retirement they couldnt. mind you we were by no means poor ever. but we never spent even close to what my dad earned. i swear he saved 50% of his salary. before he could enjoy his money dad died of cancer. adn then the taking care of financial burden fell on my mom. its kinda an albatross round her neck. and her spending urge is GONE. she rarely buys anything for herself. mostly while she enjoyed financial freedom when young she enjoyed money by buying things for family and friends. now family is thousands of miles away and no money can cover the loss of that.
and so they taught me how to invest in now which i do with dd. forget savings for future (when i had the opportunity i did that - now forget it). sometimes i have to spread a few dollars over days. its during those times if i can spend on something frivolous then i consider it a feat. i have lost too many good times with dd (u dont spend your last $$s coz those are ur last $$$s and then you find some in ur pocket that will help you get thru till your next check) to not grab the chance when i get it.
that's why its important not to focus only on the monetary worth of the item or service. it may not be financially wise decision but it might be a huge life changing things (and hugeness comes in small packages so its only in retrospect do you realise how huge it was). i have a friend who is a single mom who came across some money she wanted to use with travel. she felt it was irresponsible and instead put it in an investment. she regrets her decision pitifully lately as life has been pulling her down and she is unable to have her usual deal with it attitude. instead it drives her batty.
i tell you there is something to living in constant fear. i've noticed it actually makes me sick. and actually sometimes buying that hand made blouse makes me feel 'rich'. not living in that fear mode. however also i find its easier to do all that as a single mom rather than with a partner. to have a partner be on teh same page as you is huge. ex and i were poles apart. however he taught me how to value things. his reasoning was if you really, really really want it you should get it. i always remember that.
What a neat question!
I love this! I do feel sometimes people who have less than us, spend quite a bit more than us. And I'm sure the opposite is true as well. It's like living in a different reality when people talk about different levels of spending. This thread is enlightening!
A shirt (everyday clothes, nothing special) $10 for home/casual, $20 for work, $40 for a special occasion
Pants - $15-20, more for a decent pair of jeans ($50+)
Shoes - up to $20 for thongs or scuffs, $50-$100 for a decent pair of work shoes or joggers
A haircut - I cut DPs, and wish, WISH I could cut my own (I started out as a hairdresser many years ago) I don't have that forgiving type hair. So maybe $40, twice a year. I do my own fringe.
A massage - only get on rare occasions. $60 for an hour
Nails or pedicure - Don't have this done.
A toy - we only buy for friend's children, so it depends. Probably spend more than we should. Maybe $50?
A monthly night out with friends or your spouse - $100 would be a reasonable amount for both of us. We are more likely to stay in though.
I love the discussion about handmade clothes. I just wanted to add (since my post made it sound like I spend signifiantly less than everyone else here) that I get nice things. One of the reasons I love my thrift store and consignment shop is that they tend to have wonderful clothes, clothes that I could never afford if I were buying new. And most of them have been worn once or even have their tags still on. And they really do last longer than the "cheap" clothes I could actually afford at the regular store. Another thing I'm starting to learn is how to sew, which is more expensive than just buying clothes, but I agree there's something special about handmade clothes (although in my case they're still a different kind of special -- kind of funky looking as I figure this whole thing out!). I like wearing a pretty particular style and color pallate of skirt for religious reasons, and it can be hard to find them. It'd be nice to just be able to whip one up! The other option is there are a lot of internet seamstresses that sell plain/modest Christian clothing, and I'd love to support them, but at this point I just can't afford it... even though those clothes last pretty much forever I'm told.
Here's a quote I often go back to as I struggle with my new sewing machine:
"That needle poking to and fro, Means so much more than you may know. Each snap, each button, each shirt, each dress, contains something you'll never guess. Each garment Mom makes, from the start, contains a small piece of her heart. With every snip she adds her love, and whispers a prayer to God above. Dear Father, bless the one who wears this, protect and guide them with Your kindness. Give them strength from day to day. That from all sin they'll turn away. Then into each and every seam. She presses in her fondest dream. That each one in her family. Will join her in eternity. So next time Mom makes you any clothes, Know that, in it, her love shows. It's more than just a thing to wear, It's a symbol of Mom's loving care."
from "Sew Fast and Sew Easy" author wishes to be unnamed
I think it gets the point accross even when it's not Mom, and even if you aren't religious. There's a meaning to handmade clothes!