I called a good friend and they cannot even have any meat from the grocery store including a turkey, so I'm taking a roast from our beef (no processing, ect.) potatoes, and carrots. I think MIL is making a salad, and we are taking ours Sat. night b/c several have offered to take food today. Not many know of the food allergies, and I know alot of the food guests can eat, but her daughter and her boys cannot. I hate to think of her trying to keep them out of stuff, and not having much to eat herself durring all of this. It was such a tragic accident (tractor overturning, and her DH found her, it just makes me sick to think of it). I will offer to take the boys if needed, too. Thanks for the suggestions.