I am finally coming to terms with "if it bothers me, I have to be the one to do it". However - my DH helps out a ton around the house, does most of the cleaning and lots of the cooking.
For example, his job is the garbage on tuesday nights. He will take out the kitchen garbage, and run the trash cans to the street.
In my opinion, this is a half-a$$ job. He does not get the basement, bedroom, or bathroom trash. He also does not grab the stuff that he "temporarily" stores in the garage or the basement "until next trash day". It drives me insane - I want ALL of the trash out each week!
So after several years of not saying anything, and then several months of me giving hints, then complaints, I gave up. On Tuesdays, my 4yo and I play "upstairs trash guy" and we collect all of the trash around the house, and put it in the kitchen trash can.
Voila! No more arguments, no more trash.
So - if your hubby does lots of other stuff, maybe you could be the de-clutter person!
My DH will do the vacuuming, but I have to get the stuff out of the way first. So - maybe your hubby will take over some other cleaning task, if you keep the clutter at bay.
Good luck mama!