Not sure about you, but I have to have my planner on the refrigerator. This way, DH sees everything that's going on so that he can be home from work accordingly to be with the LOs, (e.g. if I have a meeting on a weeknight).
I have a dry-erase calendar, and then for a buck at a craft store, I bought a weekly calendar with tear-off sheets and a magnet on the back of it. The latter I use for my to-do lists. Either way, I make sure that all of our scheduling stuff is out in the open and visible to the whole family.
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