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#1 of 12 Old 12-07-2010, 06:35 AM - Thread Starter
 
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Awhile ago, I posted that sometimes I was afraid to even come in here because sometimes I feel so hopeless and overwhelmed. Well things are really much better.

 

I'm taking part in the 150 before Christmas challenge and it's really, really motivating. It sounded like a lot and I doubted I could even do it but I decided to play along. I had just dropped off 3 bags of child and maternity clothing to a neighbor and I didn't itemize it so I wasn't sure if could make it without that boost. Now I'm totally motivated. Having a very specific goal in mind is really, really helpful. I'm reading that in a housekeeping book for messies as well. It can't be just that I want the house to be "better," we need to have a specific goal in mind. The 150 challenge is useful because I have a goal - so even getting rid of 1 tiny little thing brings me closer to that goal of 150. Before I would think - what's the point of getting rid of this 1 little thing. Or I'd put it aside and wait for more before I got rid of it. Just this morning I knew I was going to Goodwill and I looked around my closet (now a lot cleaner than it has been for the last 6 weeks) and I was like - quick what else can I grab. Then I saw that stupid shoe rack AND I remembered that I had already set aside a pile of clothes that I was ready to part with. See - the 150 item challenge made me want to add to the pile.

 

I'm totally going for the 2011 challenge in 2011.

 

I still can't really look at anyone's pictures because it just makes me think of how far I need to go, but I may try and do a "treasure map" where I cut out pictures of clean, clear organized spaces and hang it up. Then I'll look at your real life pictures.

 

Just thought I'd share.

 

 

 

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That's awsome!  I agree having a goal (timelines are good for me) really helps.  I'm sure you'll get your 150!

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I find what helps me is to leave the house with appliances "working" for me. Dishes and or washing machine going. Then, I make errands count.. like today I took the extra DVDs out to sell, dropped off at Goodwill, returned the library books. Next time I head out, I've got a stash of extra recyclables that I have to take to a special city drop off spot. Try to think of all the little chores you can squeeze into your day. I can wipe down the stove while I talk to my girlfriend on the phone. Combine this with a quick kitchen clean up at night and suddenly life doesn't look so dirty.You get the idea.

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DH has this 'thing' about not leaving washing machines or dryers going while nobody is home, he always says murphy's law is they will start a fire, explode or whatever just when we are out! 


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In 25 years of keeping house, I've never had an appliance go wonky on me while I was away.

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Yes for you!!! Every little things makes a huge difference. I love to look at the pictures since it helps motivate me...one day my house can look that awesome toon:)

 


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Yay, Ellien!  I have been thinking of you and I am so glad to see this.  Keep at it!


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Good for you! thumb.gif

 

I think a 'vision board' or whatever you want to call it (the pictures) is a great idea! Good luck to you.


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DH has this 'thing' about not leaving washing machines or dryers going while nobody is home, he always says murphy's law is they will start a fire, explode or whatever just when we are out! 



Ahh, but is he willing to have it running at night? That's the time I like to run the dishwasher and make sure the last load of laundry is in the dryer. Sometimes I'll even throw a load of clothes into the washer at night, just so I have something to dry in the morning.


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I almost forgot about my 150! Eek! I need to get motivated. Good job finding the motivation you needed.


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Ive been feeling the same way at first it seems weird to talk about cleaning and keeping house with others then I realized I a mom this is a big part of what I do Im talking abouit what I " do " with others who are doing the same thing it a great modavatior and sense of comutiny and kinda cool

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Whoo hoo!!! It helps that we are all doing this "together" too!  Knowing that I'm not the only one helps a lot.


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