My DH is like pigpen, he cannott manage his clutter. Heeven has his own room bc otherwise we would probably be divorced
Right now i am wanting to reclaim some of the spaccethat he "needs". I pointed out to him that i don't have the priviledge of my own space ..(i know, it sounds a tad resentfull)
I realize that the flylady thing is mainly a change in attitude, not spending an entire day doing one or two things, the timer helps to prevent burnout and procrastination.
I know it is not possible to ~make~ him use some of the FL tools, and i have noticed that he is influenced by what i am doing. I also notice that for instance, in the task of cleaning his room,,,he spends *all* day pulling everything down and out into the hallway, and many times he gets it so you can see the floor and even has the bed made (he sleeps there...you know ..time to himself)
Within a day or two, it is back to pigpen. Then he acts so grumpy about having to meet regular tasks for his work or the family
I am trying to change my attitude towards him and his ways. It is what i imagine it is like living with a teenagedboy who guards his own space .
I guess Flylady would say that i have "stinkin thinkin"