Has he already started it by now? I hope so. I just started Zoloft last week too, so I can't say a whole lot about it, but my side effects have been very mild. The first couple of days I felt kind of jittery (like I had taken cold medicine) but other than that I've been okay.
I have periods where I feel like it is already helping, and other periods where I don't think it has kicked in fully yet. I do feel some difference though, and my husband has noticed some improvement.
I don't know about your husband, but for me, there was no choice about waiting to start it. I was in a bad place and I needed help immediately. If I hadn't seen a dr & a therapist and started meds last week, I don't know where I'd be this week.
Callie Mama to Nate and TTC Baby #2