Here is his opinion on medications:
|The fact that all the drugs and therapies fail to heal deep mental emotional conditions is because with this particular type of diseases you don't deal with physical level but with highly energetic, vibrational entities: Mind and emotions. If you still believe that your mind is the brain and your emotions reside in the heart, then please continue to take chemical drugs or herbs. It's your choice.
"If you find from your own experience that something is a fact and it contradicts what some authority has written down, then you must abandon the authority and base your reasoning on your own findings"~ Leonardo da Vinci
3 years with NO manic episodes, no cutting, no suicidal thoughts etc and so forth. I tried over 20 meds and ended up with bad kidneys and a fine motor control issues that persist to this day, while some of them helped me the side effects were too much to handle, so I'm very thankful I found truehope, and experienced 85% relief. I still have mild depression seasonally, but it isn't the painful horrid stuff I use to have.
In that case, I would be tempted to try alternatives to allopathic meds. I have been on and off them for about 16 years now, and I would love to be able to go off them completely. They do have serious side effects.
My suggestion would be to find a psychologist or nurse practitioner who will help you with managing the illness and looking for holistic/alternative medications. I personally would not trust someone who does not have training in mental illness, and it is possible to find mental health providers who are accepting of people who don't want to use meds.
Even Dr. Weil recommends medication may be necessary. But he also has suggestions on natural approaches to use in combination with medication.
Anne, Mama to Conner 2/27/04 Gabrielle 2/6/06 W/LMC-TCS, Neurogenic Bladder, AFO & KAFO wearer, Neurogenic Bowel & Delaney 5/12/08 & Beethoven & Gizmo
Thank you for your responses. I ordered Truehope and we are going to try it. Yes he is mostly in the depressed end of the spectrum with occasional "wild" periods but no grandiosity. He definitely doesn't reach full mania. Even when he is feeling up he is suffering- he has pulled out all of his eyelashes, now pulls his hair out and digs/scratches into his arms. He says he can't help it, that pulling hair/ scratching helps alleviate the "icky" feelings (anxiety, irritability, anger, etc). We are going to pursue homeopathics and nurtritional supplements but are going to start him on allopathic meds also. Hopefully the "alternative" remedies can minimize the amount of meds he needs.
Meds IMO are sometimes a good route to take if you can find something that works for you, but at the same time other things are worth looking into especially when rx medications aren't doing the trick.
He also definitely needs to be willing to stop behaviors/habits that are exacerbating symptoms. Like staying up late, sleeping erratically, eating poorly, consuming too many refined foods/sugar/caffeine, playing negative tapes in your mind, indulging in pity and negative thoughts, obsessing on the past/future instead of the now etc. Once you get something that helps you have some symptom relief it is essential that you develop habits and a lifestyle that sustains health- not tears it down.
For a few years my whole entire life revolved around this question:
Is this going to help or hurt my health?
Simple things like spreading myself too thin, expecting too much or perfection for myself, ruminating, being in contact with negative/dysfunctional people all those things needed to be weighed and evaluated.
It is amazing how many little things you choose to do/eat/think in a day can mess with your mental health. Fixing the chemical issues is only half the battle.
I hope your husband finds relief soon.