Thanks for the hugs, mamas! I'm sorry to vent on your thread, I just wanted to give a different perspective from someone who is also going through it. I think it is really hard to know how you would respond to a situation until you're in it. I felt bad that some people were judging the OP's SIL and BIL. I'm sure they'd be saying the same thing about me if they didn't have all the information.
Anyway, I'm glad that it sounds like the babies are doing well and arriving home in just a week! Congrats on your nephews!