What to do with my baby? - Mothering Forums

Forum Jump: 
Thread Tools
#1 of 4 Old 07-28-2003, 04:12 PM - Thread Starter
crayon's Avatar
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Where snow drifts, drift....
Posts: 3,829
Mentioned: 1 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 6 Post(s)
Well everything was fine- I mean she was nursing herself to sleep not fights then 3 1/2 months hit and watch out! I dont know if is the fact that now she can suck her thumb good and would rather have that in her mouth than me or if it is that she is getting more active and she doent want to miss anything, but getting her to sleep has been getting harder and harder- is is this half fussy half sleep thing- then she wants the thumb that always gets mixed up in the blankie- but we have to have the blankie- then she wants the boob- no wait the thumb- no wait the boob- and is fussing with her eyes shut- I feel so bad for her, but I dont know how to cure this.


[B][I]~Ang~ Mom to 2 sport-head crazy girls: Rainey and Breeze  and my little lost love- @18 weeks with gestational age of 7 weeks

crayon is offline  
#2 of 4 Old 07-28-2003, 08:11 PM
becca29's Avatar
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: MN
Posts: 296
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I don't know what else to say other than I know what you're going through! Our 3 and 1/2 month old is at the same stage. It just seems like he doesn't want to miss anything, spo tries to stay awake and fights sleep, but then he's tired so he cries. I feel so bad for him! Mostly, we just walk with him in his sling and hold him until he falls asleep.

The one thing that seems to help the most is trying to get him to sleep as soon as he rubs his eyes or gives a yawn, and we can tell it's time for a nap. We know he likes to fall asleep in his sling, so we put him in there until he nods off. Of course, sometimes he still tries to stay awake and we end up with a lot of fussiness anyways, but it helps sometimes.
becca29 is offline  
#3 of 4 Old 07-28-2003, 08:22 PM
lilyka's Avatar
Join Date: Nov 2001
Location: Sioux Falls, SD
Posts: 18,301
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 1 Post(s)
I would try a very structured bedtime routien. it sounds like she is getting over tired and then can't decide what she wants and then gets frustrated and can't cope because she is tired and on top of it thinks she might miss somehting if she goes to sleep and there fore tries to keep herself awake making her more over tired etc . . . My 2nd dd was like this. we did a very structured bedtime routien (as in wrote down all the steps and times and followed them precisely) and within a week she was sleeping tons better. It is worth a shot and won't hurt anytyhing to try.

The truest answer to violence is love. The truest answer to death is life. The only prevention for violence is for the heart to have no violence within it.  We cannot prevent evil through any system devised by mankind. But we can grapple with evil and defeat it, but only with love—real love.

lilyka is offline  
#4 of 4 Old 07-29-2003, 01:56 PM
Justice2's Avatar
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Making tea
Posts: 2,697
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
Hi Ang! I am sorry that you are having such a hard time getting Rainey to sleep. With Kaeleb, we do have a pretty strict bedtime routine. At 9:00 sharp, I give him a bath, lotion (with infant massage), diaper and t-shirt. Then I spend about 15 minutes rocking him to sleep (and YES, HE NURSES TO SLEEP YEAHHHHH!!!). Then I put him in our bed and all is well. I know that not all babies are good sleepers though. s to you and Rainey. I hope that it gets better soon.
Justice2 is offline  

Quick Reply
Drag and Drop File Upload
Drag files here to attach!
Upload Progress: 0

Register Now

In order to be able to post messages on the Mothering Forums forums, you must first register.
Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below.
User Name:
If you do not want to register, fill this field only and the name will be used as user name for your post.
Please enter a password for your user account. Note that passwords are case-sensitive.
Confirm Password:
Email Address
Please enter a valid email address for yourself.
Email Address:


Human Verification

In order to verify that you are a human and not a spam bot, please enter the answer into the following box below based on the instructions contained in the graphic.

User Tag List

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
Email this Page Email this Page

Forum Jump: 

Posting Rules  
You may post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off