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Old 07-30-2003, 01:14 AM - Thread Starter
 
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Hi everyone! Just thought I'd check in on you all. How are you doing? How is your little one doing? How are they sleeping? What are they doing developmentally?

Eli and I are doing well. He recently began sleeping from 9-3:30 each night--a big change from his every 2 hour waking/eating ritual. He is smiling and cooing TONS. He hasn't started to roll over yet or to even indicate he is ready to that. He is starting to reach for things but only slightly (and only sometimes). The only downer is that he won't take a bottle. But we are working on that a little bit each day.

Hope you all are doing well!!!
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hi Rebekah & Eli~
wow, just happened to be on line today, & here you are with this thread, cool! Even tho I'm not technically a May mama, I can't resist! Eli sounds great, that's a lot of sleep he's getting. Griffin sleeps a little too well for us right now, I really need to pump if he doesn;t eat every 2-3 hrs & it's hard to get myslef out of bed! Tonight I nursed him down in the bed & he's sleepng with DH right now while I get a little alone time. We stay in bed as late in the morning as possible, like 9 or 10am just nursing & napping before we start our day!

We are still busy battling to bring my milk supply up, but it does seem to be getting better & Griffin is doing great! I get lots of smiles & happy faces, but we have some fussing times, too! The poor guy seems to get awful gas pains & we have finally broke down & got the mylicon drops a friend told us about, seems to help a little & at least we are trying everything!

No rolling over yet, but sometimes on the changing table he gets his head rolling back & forth (looks like an impersonation of Ray Charles) & I wonder if he isnt trying to get some momentum worked up! Very cute! He hates to be laid down on his activity mat, even when I am right there with him. He really likes to play in his bouncy seat, something I wasn't even sure I wanted. But he loves to reachout & bat at little orange & red bug we hung in front of him & look at himslef in the mirror. Plus I can sit there @ the table with him & get the bills paid!

We are trying to figure out how to help him with his head & neck control. "Tummy time" is sort of out since, again he hates to be laid down alone. He loves to be held up & looking over your shoulder, so the best I've been able to figure out is me or DH holds him& then lays down on our back, so he is on his tummy on us & hopefully he will get more practice holding his head up! ANy other ideas?

Also, how did your 8-9 week olds like their slings? DS was cool with it a few weeks age, but has been protesting lately. He doesn;t like to be down in the sling, wants to see out, but again, doesn't have enough head control for me to feel he is really safe in a sitting up/forward position. We are using a Maya & a OTSBH. I just got a new mesh pouch I haven;t tried yet, maybe he will be able to see thru it & like that?

take care all, looking forward to hearing about your babies!
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Hi Maria!! Eli still likes his sling--which is great bcse it is the main way that ds gets him to sleep. We only put him in there when he is tired. otherwise, we keep him in bjorn facing out. he likes to look around just like Griffin. I think i'll get an ergo bcse he already seems to big for bjorn--bjorns aren't cd friendly!!
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Hi, all. Glad to see the May babies are doing well.

Maggie is ever-evolving, growing and changing each day. She is now sleeping 4-5 hours at night, although she recently went through a growth spurt (maybe) where she would sleep 4 hours then wake up to eat every hour afterward. Everyone keeps asking me if she is sleeping through the night. They don't understand that it doesn't bother me.... Especially since she has never wanted to stay awake when she wakes up to eat. She doesn't usually even open her eyes.

She is very strong. She has been holding her head up (90 degrees) when on her belly for over a month. But she was holding her head up pretty much from birth; she must just have strong neck muscles! She loves bearing her own weight on her legs and gets when we don't let her. Her new goal is sitting up. Whenever she is in her carseat or swing, she tries to sit straight up. If we put her down on a blanket, we never know where she is going to end up because she likes to scoot all around-she rolled over before 7 weeks but luckily hasn't figured out how to do it again. So she is definitely strong.

She is not, however, interested in swatting at things. Shows no interest at all. I can't wait till she does that.

She is VERY nosy, and has gotten to the stage where she often stops nursing to look around. Not fabulous when I am getting ready to pass her off to DH so I can go to work part-time. Otherwise, her amazing alertness is great.

Maggie was diagnosed earlier this week with reflux. We decided to go ahead with the tests because she has a terrible cough (actually since birth) and wheezes, which we decided we could not take chances with, since asthma and reflux are linked in infants. She also has tracheomalacia, which just means her trachea isn't actually mature yet. Nothing too serious, but I may be cutting out dairy to see if it helps the reflux to try to avoid meds.
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Everyone keeps asking me if she is sleeping through the night. They don't understand that it doesn't bother me.... Especially since she has never wanted to stay awake when she wakes up to eat. She doesn't usually even open her eyes.
hi Maggies mom~ I am so with you on this! People seem to fixated on sleeping! my response is, that he's sleeping too good! If he sleeps over 3hrs, I have to get up & pump to keep my supply up! People just don't get it!

sorry to hear about your babe's reflux~ how did they make the diagnosis? Griffin has some wicked crying jags while he's trying to eat, not every day. Has never thrown up, but makes really loud swallow noises like belchy hiccups & swallows. Sometimes I wonder...

take care all, can't wait to hear more!
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Maggie had an Upper GI and an airway study to diagnose her reflux. The gold standard is actually a test where a small tube is put down the nose and left in place for 24 hours to measure the acid- she didn't have that.

Most doctors usually just prescribe Prilosec or Zantac and see if the situation gets better rather than doing any actual testing. We couldn't really do that with Maggie because she has had, since birth, a terrible barking cough and a wheeze. We had to rule out asthma and other serious airway problems. As a metter of fact, her ped wants her to see a ped pulmonologist to keep an eye on the tracheomalacia in case she does NOT outgrow it.

Doctors are now thinking that somewhere around 30% or babies has reflux to some extent because of immature digestive systems. Many recommend not medicating unless the baby seems to be in pain.

Here is a site with more info about pediatric reflux www.reflux.org

Hope Griffin doesn't have it!
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thanks for the link, it's great! it must have been so hard to see her going thru the tests, you are strong! But she is gaining so good, what a healthy growin babe!

We had low weight gain, but as of today @ Griffins 2 mo appt, he is now 9lbs 13oz, 23 in, gained 11 oz in 2 weeks. Dr is happy with that & says I can keep supplementing less, depending on my supply. (My goal is supplement only EBM, so tommorrow is going to be a big pumping day with DH home to take the baby all the time)

Started 2 vaxs today, just got DTAP & Hib. I only got the DTAP for the pertussis, wished I could have gotten a single valient shot but she didnt have 1. We waived the Prevnar, polio, & Hep B, might look into the Prevnar for later. Is anyone else considering/ picking & chosing vax, or no vax? How is it going for you?

looks like DS is finally winding down, hasn't been sleeping as easy @ nite lately, we used to stay in bed 10p -10a just sleeping & nursing. Well, everything changes, huh!

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Not wanting to highjack this thread, but I did want to add another reflux link for SpiralWoman, in case there is still interest.

www.infantreflux.org

Maggie will be starting Zantac next week (a little ) but after much research and a long discussion with her ped, we feel it is necessary because she also has tracheomalacia. The combination of the too is a little rare and could cause some problems.


Luckily, although the reflux is significant, it is not severe and the effects are not severe for her either. Hopefully she will outgrow it in a few months.
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Hi may mommas

Ollie is doing good he's getting so big it's crazy he weighs 13lbs and is such a cute little chub. He holds his head up really well and has since his first week. He 'talks' to us all the time and is mostly a smiley happy guy. I think he generally sleeps 4-6 hours for his first stretch at night then probably 2-3 hour stretches till we get up in the morning.

We had an MRI yesterday to look at the mass in his leg it was really hard. He had to be sedated and have an IV I was so pissed it took them 40 minutes and 3 different spots before they got it started even though he was sedated at the time he was still crying it had to have hurt so bad to wake him through sedation my porr baby. I really hope this is the last test we have to do I hate all this I know we have to figure this out but its against every instinct I have to let them hurt my baby. I know its their job *sigh* Of course we had to have this done on a Friday so we have the joy of the whole weekend to worry about results.

Maggiesmom- I'm sorry to hear about the reflux it really sucks to have a hurting baby. Hopefully the zantac will work for you guys

Spiralwoman- You'll always be a may mom to me for the sling I usually wear Ollie tummy to tummy so if he's awake he can see out and look around but it's still comfy for him if he falls asleep since I just tuck his head in. I use a Mayawrap and a Mom and me creations adjustable pouch.

Rebeka-Sounds like Eli is doing wonderful congrats on getting a longer sleep stretch

question- Anyone dealing with postpartum depression? These last couple of weeks have been really hard for me. I feel so out of control? Angry and sad and just a mess. I hate feeling like this. I just want to be enjoying my kids and all I want is everyone to stop touching me. This really sucks
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Janessa- I have been wondering how Ollie was. I am SO sorry you had to go through watching him have those tests. ( I take blood as part of my job, and I hate doing it on kids. But I never, ever stick a kid more than once.) I made myself sick over Maggie's tests, and they were not nearly as difficult at what poor little Ollie had to go through. I made DH go in with her because I knew she would be MAD and I wouldn't be able to comfort her. But to have to have an IV, which is something I have never even had, well, that just must have been hard. You are brave!

I really hope you get good news next week when you get the results. I was hoping that thing would just go away like my friends did.
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hi Janessa~
it sounds like you & Ollie are holding up pretty well with all you are going thru. Poor guy! You are so strong doing what's best for him.

As far as PPD, I can't say I have it, but I feel like I've climbed a million miles up & down hill in the last 2 months. I think the stress of a newborn is one thing, the stress of a medical crisis is another & put them together, how do you have the reserves to take care of yourself emotionally? You just do the best you can & ask for help whenever you need it, whatever it is!

I will be thinking the best positive outcomes for you all & I know this weekend will be a long one for you!


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Hi there,
Good to hear from some of the May mamas.

Sorry you are going through such a rough time, Janessa. You should check out the PPD forum. I went through a rough patch early on & found a checklist that gives you an idea where you stand (of course I can't find the link now, sorry). Hope you have some news soon & can get on with dealing with the results of the MRI. Waiting is so hard .

MaggiesMom - at least you know what the problem is now & you can start taking care of it. After reading some other threads I wonder if ds might have silent reflux, but then again, he might just not like comfort nursing & be wanting a soother.

Daniel is doing so well, I feel almost guilty sometimes that he is so easy. He is probably about 13 lbs now as well & strong! I wish I could attach a picture because he is sooo cute . He doesn't ever want to sit down - always standing or straddling a leg to look around. He has always had good head control, but I think holding & carrying him a lot of the time helps too. Nursing is getting better, but he still doesn't have a very good latch. Luckily he only nurses for 5-10 minutes at a time, so the discomfort doesn't last too long. I can't believe how well he sleeps most nights - usually 5-6 hours to start, but he has gone 7 once & 8 once! BTW, don't they consider 5 hours straight sleeping through the night? If so, you can tell them she is, MM. Anyway, Daniel doesn't usually nurse to sleep. This is totally the opposite of what dd did. That was the only way she would go to sleep (other than in the car) for the first couple of years!! He will nurse, then fuss a bit, have a burp & either fall asleep on my shoulder or start dozing a bit & I'll put him down. Even if I put him down wide awake, like tonight, he will kick & look around a bit & then go to sleep .
He loves to lie under the activity links & bat at the rattles. He is really good at it & knows exactly what he's doing. Only problem is he squirms himself too far away to reach them sometimes : . He hasn't rolled over yet, but he did roll back to side a couple of times a few weeks ago. He also hates tummy time, but not like dd - she would scream like crazy. He just fusses a bit & sometimes cries. One time he got sucking on his hand & fell asleep . He does suck on his hands a lot & also drools a lot more than dd did. I keep wondering if he's starting teething since dd had her first tooth before she was 4 months. He sometimes bites down on my nipple with his gums as he's pulling off - that hurts enough without teeth .
Dh gets home tomorrow from four days away & I'm planning on going out for a couple of hours ALONE!! He has been travelling a fair bit since ds was born & that was part of the PPD thing. I actually managed pretty well when he was gone, but had huge expectations of how things should be when he was here & the reality just didn't measure up. I still have some bad times, but I'm trying not to take it out on him as that just makes it worse.
Anyway, I'm rambling now. I should get to bed.

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As far as PPD, I can't say I have it, but I feel like I've climbed a million miles up & down hill in the last 2 months. I think the stress of a newborn is one thing, the stress of a medical crisis is another & put them together, how do you have the reserves to take care of yourself emotionally? You just do the best you can & ask for help whenever you need it, whatever it is!
Thank you Maria I needed to hear that. I'm just so scared to be depressed again, after I had my dd I was in a really bad place and am very scared of ending up back there. I think alot of my problems this time is just no sleep and a heck of alot of stress. I'm hoping come Monday most of the stress will be gone and the rest will fall in place.
mama2nicola-I have been over to the PPD forum but am not good about jumping in I feel safer talking with you wonderful gals I am reading over there though looking for some tips and not feeling so alone if that makes sense.
Maggiesmom-I was crying when they were poking him but at least I was there and could touch and talk to him, I doubt he noticed but it makes me feel better that I was there. I guess he had really little veins hiding in all his lovely rolly pollyness.

Thanks everyone for your thoughts you all are a wonderful source of strenth
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Well the MRI results are back and the only thing they told us was that it's not a hemangioma. This just blows it means more freaking needles more doctors. I'm so down I was so sure the MRI would be it, it would show hemangioma and we'd have nothing more to worry about. I hate this I don't want them hurting my baby anymore. Now we have to meet with a surgeon and figure out the next step. More then likely a biopsy. Half of me wishes I had never noticed this stupid mass then I'd get to enjoy Ollie and not deal with this. I know its good we found it and are figuring out what it is but it just sucks


Thanks for listening to me whine, I need to get that out of my system.

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Janessa, please keep us posted... I have been thinking about you and Ollie so much lately, I hope you get some answers soon so that you can go back to enjoying your baby.

As far as PPD... hmmmm. I honestly have no idea if I have it... we have just had so much to deal with that I think a lot of how I am feeling is related to that. The last few years have been so surreal... I can function just fine, but when I actually think of everything that we have gone through it really makes me sad. There was only 14 months between Xiola's birth and Ezra's, so aside from my being physically exausted, we were still very much processing our grief from the loss of our daughter. The first few weeks were especially intense, ds looked *so much* like his sister. I was feeling pretty frazzled then, but I figured that I did'nt have PPD, simply because even when I was feeling my worst, Mike and I could still make each other laugh, and I have read about mamas with PPD who could not get out of bed. Maybe my 'definition' of PPD is faulty?

After Xiola's birth, I was horribly depressed... but I don't know if there is any way that I could determine how much of that (if any) was PPD and how much of that was the very real consequence of losing my child at birth... but then, I could barely feed myself, let alone function in any other capacity.

It's hard, because the first few weeks are such a period of adjustment... and then to have other things on top of that to worry about... Janessa, I think that you are handling the stress as well as anyone could, certainly better then I would. Please take care of yourself so you can take care of your babies. This is definitely the time to get help from anyone who will give it, so you can save your energy for Ollie and Shiah.

I am sooo tired (just now starting to get enough sleep to feel somewhat human), we had supply problems early on and just as we started to catch up from that, I had to go back to work at 6 weeks. My job is okay (with fantastic benes, and Ezra comes in to nurse 3x a day) but I would rather be home with him, but the economy is so tight here still that there are literally *no* jobs in Mike's line of work. I should be happy that we have enough money to feed ourselves, have a nice apartment, good health insurance, and one of us home with the baby... I just wish it could be *me* at home. And it's hard. Especially when he cries when my break is over and he has to go but he wants to stay with me. That is enough to make me want to crawl under my desk and stay there.

Oh, but the smiles... that's what we've been waiting for, and it really does make it all worth it. Ezra is really holding up his head now, and loves to look at the crazy baby in the mirror! He bounces up and down when he gets excited about something, and is starting to laugh and make all sorts of really great sounds. Tummy time used to make him mad, but now he kicks his legs and seems to understand that with a little more practice, he could actually transport himself that way. Oh, and our guilty baby pleasure? The F-P Aquarium Bouncy Seat! It takes 4 D-cell batteries, but it is the only way we can really put him down to make dinner or go to the bathroom. He used to hate it with a passion, but now he allows himself to be amused by the bubbles and fishies for 15-20 minutes at a time before he yells to let us know he is done.

And yes, Maria... you will always be a May Mama to me

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Hello,
I just spent 20 mins replying to all of you individually and lost it because I hit a "clear all" button I didn't even know this keyboard had. So I'll make this one short.

I had terrible PPD with #1 and after having #2 I realized I had only had 40 min stretches of sleep for the first 3 months with DS, enough to make anyone nuts. Feel free anyone to PM me about it if you want as I find the PPD boards depressing myself.

Iris is doing great! She is probably 12lbs now we haven't weighed her since early July so I'm not sure. She is the complete oppisite of her brother for sleeping she will sleep at least one 6 hour stretch every night, something that I never believed an infant could do until I had her. She is however exactly like her brother in activity level. She is mins away from rolling over she rolls from back to side all the time to get at toys on her activity mat. She wants someone to hold her up so she can stand and bounce ALL the time, oh my aching shoulders! She also hates all the sweet cradling baby poses she wants to be held facing forward so she can see all the action.
A great quote from my Grandmother the other day while holding Iris "I know I ordered a little girl but I wanted a nice, fat, lazy, little girl you can just lay down and watch coo for hours" and then she laughs.

I'm going before I erase this post too. I hope things start to look up for folks soon, My mom has had some positive Doc's visits recently so we think she should come through the cancer fine.

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Janessa-
So sorry you didn't get any definitive answers. It must be very frustrating and sad for you. It has to be 1000x harder than what we dealt with and I am so, so sorry your family is going through this. I was really hoping you would get better news.

Keep us posted on Ollie's well-being.
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whew! you guys, we all have so much goiing on!

XM~ it is so good to hear from you & Anna, me too, just had a reply here & it never posted, so hard to try to recreate! I'm glad you are getting positive news about your mother's cancer. My Aunt is having a lumpectomy on the 13th, they hope it hasn't gone to the lymph. Tiny lump.

So, that's not about my baby, so I guess a little off topic. But I was thinking how hard it is to keep up with everything. I really want to chat it up with everyone, but no time to go back thru & remember. So I thought we could try to start a prayer/meditation request list if you are interested for us. I put it in 'FInding Your Tribe" (under the Welcome heading) it's called "Maymamas prayer/meditation Prayer/meditation requests" if you are interested, ck it out.

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Thanks for all those links!
I had to check them since we have had some symptons with Iris since birth that may or may not be allergy related. Dh looked up the main symptons in the Sears baby book and thought it might be GER but we never looked into it with her Ped.

We know for sure she can't tollerate me having any dairy, huge burning diaper rash and screaming everytime she goes poop . She also has gagged and choked very easily since birth. Sometimes just opening her mouth and sticking out her tongue to nurse will make her do it. Also when she is filling up for a long sleep and is kinda fussy I'll pick her up, burp her, and when I lay her down to nurse again she will scream and strain and when I try to rub her tummy to calm her down it's rock hard.

Do you know if these are things we should disscuss with her Ped? I think the poop and scream thing was so hard for us that the other symptons never seemed as awfull even though she is still doing them.

Janessa- Is there any Md you've found that you are comfortable with? I know you had troubles with a stand in Ped one visit. Is there another office you can look into or speacialist that might be more understanding. You have an amazing amount of strength to be doing what you're doing right now, I'm always impressed by how positive your posts are. I hope this is over for you all very soon.


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Hi all
I've been reading since last night, thank you for your words I was just waiting for the chance to write back
Maria- I will go and check out the thread you started it sounds wonderful
XM- thank you so much for these words "Janessa, I think that you are handling the stress as well as anyone could, certainly better then I would. Please take care of yourself so you can take care of your babies. This is definitely the time to get help from anyone who will give it, so you can save your energy for Ollie and Shiah. "
I have such a hard time asking for help, even though I have a wonderful support group I forget to ask kwim? So thank you for your reminder I needed it. I can't even imagine how surreal hard this last year has been for you you are an amazing women.
Anna- sounds like Iris is so much fun Neither of my babies have been able to tolerate dairy. Shiah couldn't even handle trace amounts I had to read everything it was hard but worth it. At about a year I could start eating small amounts and not worry about reading labels as much. So far with Ollie I've had to eliminate all obvious dairy but not reading labels quite yet I will be soon though if he keeps getting patches of exzema.
thank you everyone for your thoughts.

Could we do a cute things our little ones do? This thread needs some cheering up
I'll go first, if Ollie is awake and I'm not paying enough attention he will click his tongue to get me to notice him then when I look and talk to him I get the whole body grin .

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Quilter Mama, I always think "odd" symptoms should be discussed with peds. I had thought Maggie might have reflux, but didn't present it to her ped in that frame of reference. We just gave him (the PA, actually) the scoop on what she was doing, (mainly coughing) and he ran with it.

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Well, technically I am a June mamma by 3 days, but Zane was due on May 18th, so...

Things are going well, especially now that we have the reflux figured out. At 2 weeks, after a terrific weight gain, he started losing fast, and becoming unable to nurse (rigid and screaming awful projectile vomiting, etc..), and was diagnosed with GERD. I was reluctant to put him on Zantac, but it was obvious what a difference it made, and things have really been better since. We also worked out the allergy issues-- turns out both dairy and wheat cause extra gassiness (he's a pretty gassy babe regardless) and the dread green poops. I'm glad we finally figured it out, but I am MISSING Ben and Jerry's Coffee Heathbar Crunch and fresh loaves of bread! Hopefully he'll grow out of it, but if not, I'm eating remarkably healthy.

Zane is a big boy. At 8 weeks, he weighed 13.6 and was 24 1/2" long... DH and I joke that I have given birth to a sasquatch! (He's got the huge feet to match, too.) He's very physical, and is actually rolling both front to back and back to front...actually, I learned this the day he rolled of the dresser/changing table while I leaned over for a dipe. OMG, it was terrifying! He's okay, but I have a whole new crop of gray hairs, and I will NEVER take my hand off him again while he's elevated. Anyway, he's very pleased with his new tricks, and does them frequently now and giggles...AT GROUND LEVEL, though. But between this, and holding his head steady, kind of half-sitting, and wanting to put weight on his feet, I'm a bit worried that he's going to be one of those babies that you hear about who walks at 6 months. *gulp*

Janessa, I'm so sorry to hear what your family is enduring. XM is right, TAKE THE HELP. I know it's hard, but you need to be mothered right now almost as much as your little guy.

I'm glad to hear everyone is doing so well. I hear you on the PPD roller coaster. The first 6 weeks were so intense, and I spent so much of them a wreck... but I'm seeing the light more and more every day. That, and the GERD / colic episodes are slowly getting better. Now if only I felt my desire for DH kick back in. Anyone else dealing with that? Sex is the last thing on my mind (and I'm still recovering I feel from a very intense birth), and our anniversary is coming up, and for the first time in our partnership I'm feeling "obligated"....okay, OT, sorry.

Aren't the smiles incredible? I am so in love with this little guy, and this new difficult but rewarding path as a mama...

Anyone esle struggling with vacc issues? I've chosen not to, but where I live (northwestern WA) there is a pretty big "outbreak" of Pertussis, and I'm struggling with my decision. Whooping Cough terrifies me in a babe... If this is too OT, let me know, and I'll start a new thread...

Wow, what a rambling post.... when Zane sleeps, I have diarrhea of the keyboard.
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I love to hear about other May babies, especially after lurking here quite a bit in late pregnancy. My May girl was born on the 31st at 11:46 pm so is just barely a May baby. She is #4 for me, and is so much fun -- I'd forgotten how much I enjoy little babies. She's full of smiles and laughs these days. She especially likes her daddy to make faces and funny noises for her and will laugh and laugh at him as long as he does it. She holds her head well and prefers to sit up and face out most of the time. She hates being on her tummy (weird for me, as my first 3 hated being on their backs!) She also loves to bat at toys in her bouncy seat.
I also am getting grilled daily about whether she sleeps through the night. She sleeps about 3-4 hours when she first goes to sleep, then wakes every 2 hours to be fed after that. I really don't mind -- she's always just awake enough to eat and back to sleep very quickly. I sleep like a dead person myself, so am able to wake up just enough to latch her on and usually don't wake up again until she wakes to eat again. I'm still working on good comebacks for all the folks (mostly other medical folks) who think its awful that she wakes up so much. I'm also back to work full time, and I count on those night feedings to keep my supply up. Not to mention that a fourth baby doesn't get as much one-on-one time except at night, so I don't mind having her up several times.
She loves the sling, and now that she wants to look around, I put her in sort of a cross between forward facing and sideways. I put the rings low on my shoulder, then her back rests against the side of the sling and her head is supported, but she can see out. So basically, she is facing sideways, does that make sense? I've used this same sling for 8 years now, though, and have gotten pretty good at finagling different holds as the baby at the time grows.
I'm sorry so many of you are facing such difficulties. I hope life will smooth out again soon for all!
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hello!!

i just got back online YAY!!!!!!!! in the last 3 mos., we had a baby, dh started a new job, and we moved. it's been pretty crazy, but very good. Lana is amazing--one of those rare babies that likes to sleep A LOT. she's been sleeping thru for a while now, THANKFULLY...my first was (and still is) fairly high-need, and i don't know if i could have coped with two high-needs kids. the transition from 1 to 2 hasn't been too bad. i have an ultimate baby wrap which i love, and now lana can hold her head up and look around at everyone. with my son, i was completely in shock and just tring to cope with it all--now i feel i can enjoy the baby more. i got some cloth diapers, and i'm gradually making the transition to cd'ing. the cradle cap is starting to go away--ds didn't have it. i'd heard of it, of course, but i didn't realize how annoying it is. it's hard to get rid of, and very noticeable--i'm always afraid people will think i don't wash her. it was in her ears and eyebrows, too, blech.

funny story...i moved to a house just outside NYC, so i've had to go out shopping to get things here and there. i had to nurse lana in a parking lot one day last week, and as she was nursing, she pooped. now, she has very runny poo, and i know i have to move quickly to change her or else...so i got up immediately to change her, and as i got to the other side of the car, i realized my leg was wet. i looked down and there was poo ALL over my shorts...if i'd been in the old apt, i'd have had to walk a quarter mile in the city street because there's no parking close to the building...thankfully now i have a driveway, so no one saw my poo'ed on shorts!!! hooray for the suburbs!!

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Oh, so mad! I just typed a nice long note while DD was sleeping, and it disappeared!

Of course, now she is awake and eating, so I probably won't have much time to type.

Quilter Mama, as I was saying, we just told the ped dd's symptoms. I tried not to lead him to any conclusions. DD is wheezy, so we had to have her tested even though an upper GI isn't the best reflux test. She does have a structural abnormality in her trachea.

IslandMamma- was it you that had the Zanmtac put into a bubble gum base? Maggie's smells like peppermint schnapps. She hates it- coughs, chokes, grimaces, cries, and spits most of it out. I am giving it two more days to get better and then we are done. I can't torture her forever.

Anyone else have a too-nosey-to-eat baby? Maggie loves trees and won't eat if she can watch one.

Gotta fly- she's done eating.
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Hi, all! I am new to the mothering boards. I just joined about a week ago. I have a May baby, so thought I would brag on her. She's not rolling over yet, but she is grasping onto toys now (just started that about 2 weeks ago.) She can hold her head all the way up for a few seconds when placed on her belly, though she doesn't really like tummy time. Her favorite things to do are stand with my support and sit up (almost on her own!) I just hold her hands. I think she will be an early walker. She still nurses quite frequently during the day, every hour or so. And she takes about 4 - 1 hour naps. She is sleeping through the night, anywhere from 9 - 12 hours straight. She goes to bed around 8 o'clock now, so dh and I actually get a few minutes alone now before we go to bed. She is smiling and squealing all the time now. And she talks (cooing & other baby sounds) a lot too! Sometimes she tries to talk and nurse at the same time. It is really fun to watch! She is a great eater and is now 14 1/2 lbs. We are c'ding, so some of her 3-6 mth. cloths are starting to get too small because of the extra bulk. Anyway, I am really enjoying motherhood and it's challenges (like when to take a shower ) Thanks to all for welcoming me into your community.

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MaggiesMom- Yep, it was me that had it put in a bubblegum base. The peppermint schnapps-smelling stuff is the pharmacy formula, and it's in a strong alcohol base. (Can you even BELIEVE they invented this for babes? It makes me so angry). Anyway, DS did the same thing, screaming, choking, but he really needed it. So I did some research -- the trick is to find a COMPOUNDING pharmacy-- they make their own blends there. The bubblegum base is artifical and sweet, but at least he'll take it, sometimes even with a smile. (we have a very elaborate and funny Zantac ritual...) The bummer is that most insurance companies will not cover a compound formula, so we pay out of pocket. It's not too bad-- $20-- but so worth it.

Good luck!
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